Should I tell her?

Question

Theres this girl, and she is absoultly increidible.She is smart, beautiful, sweet, and just a overall great person. She has changed me as a person. She has shown me the path of religion that I love, she has made me do better in school by saying if she can do it why cant I. She has open me up and helped me see every creature for thier own beauty. She is my reason for getting up in the morning, and I look forward to being with her when ever I can. We are freinds, and I have already asked her out,several time, even once with a group of people. She said no, but because she wants to wait till shes older. I have these increidible feelings that I have never felt for anyone, and I want to tell her. What should I do?

When I say I asked her out with a group of people, I mean I asked if she wanted to do something with a group of people. I am way to shy to ask her out in front of a group of people. Shes smart and knew I just wanted a date with her, and shes not ready, but I'll wait.

I am going to tell her. Thank you all so much!

Answer 1

you sound so sweet! tell her all of this. tell her if she doesn't want to go out now you'll wait [and keep that promise] dude,don't ask her in front of people she'll think it's a joke. Maybe right her a note that says it for you. Slip it through her locker [if your in school?] sign your name at the bottom be brave. tell her what you wrote up there. she'll fall head over heels maybe.

Answer 2

Sounds like you've already made your decision...I think....

If you still have doubts, I recomend waiting until SHE is ready. It could also be a comfortable way for her to say she isnt' intrested in you...I've had a girl do that to me before ;). Don't worry, there are PLENTY of other girls out there, maybe even better than the one you are pursuing now...just be patient and wait...and THE girl will be there waiting for you ;) Good luck and hope that helps!

Answer 3

You sir, will go down in history as one of the dumbest morons to walk the face of the Earth if you let this girl slip away. Do the following. Go to her, tell her that you think she is worth waiting for and that you will be there when she is ready, and when you say this, you need to mean it. Then you do the hardest thing in the world. You wait. Good Luck dude.

Answer 4

Well, i think that that's wonderful first of all!
Next, I think that if she doesnt want to get into relationships until she's older, that's fine. I'm sure she loves having a guy that is in love with her (if she does know), and probably likes you a lot, but just doesn't want to get hurt. i know exactly how she feels too. First, ask her when she'd want to go out, &&then def. dont go and give too much attention to other girls. I'm sure that with the personality that she has, she won't have trouble finding anoterh guy, so stick with her... & im sure that eventually, she'll go out with you... &you two will be a perfect couple <3

Answer 5

Well, based on the provided details, you are kinda young, if she's making you wait. If you're old enough, suggest getting her a promise ring. That's not going out, it's just like saying, I promise I'll go out with you when we are older and I won't date any other guys. Tell her how much she means to you. Good luck!

Let us know how it goes!!:-)

Answer 6

hey bro, tell her. but make sure to say it in a way that wont "scare her off" alot of girls get kinda scared when someone tells them that they feel that way. but also make sure that you say everything you need to and dont forget to stress the fact that you will wait for her and let her know you respect her decision. then as several people have said all you can do is wait. one of the hardest things in life to do but if shes worth it, which sounds like it, then you can do it.

good luck!