Does he love me or is it a long term game?

Question

I've been seeing a guy whom is 17 years older than me. We met out about 2 yrs ago in Pittsburgh. When I 1st met him he was in the middle of his 2nd divorce. I recently moved to Maryland. We kept in touch and he has continued to support me emotionally and physically with the move. He has since come to visit me several times, some weekend back to back. The one particular weekend he washed some of his belongings at my house and a pair of woman’s panties showed up in the wash? I asked him who they belonged to and he was shell shocked and began to say that he knows I'm still seeing another guy from Pittsburgh. He played completely pass the fact that another woman’s panties showed up? However the rest of the weekend was pure bliss. He followed that weekend up by showing up the following weekend making it another pleasurable experience. He continuously tells me that he loves me over and over again and we sleep intertwined and breathing in each others space. We wake up kissing & saying I lov

Answer 1

Honey. I'm afraid he is playing huge games with you. When a man deflects from a direction question as he did to you about the panties, he is definitely trying to shift the conversation. If he is on his second divorce that should tell you something right there. When they are caught red handed, they usually suck up big time. And you've had 2 wonderful blissful weekends since then. I would leave now before your heart really gets hurt. Best of luck to you.