me and my ex borke up i ran scared and now i am ready but he has girlfriend but he still come to see me& kiss me i know it was stupid but we are all only human i need to know should i try?
2007-03-15 14:05:37 · 19 answers · asked by dixie061788 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, this is totally unfair to the other woman.
However, if you really love him, and not just for a little while, then you should take a chance. But ONLY if you truly believe that he is Mr. Right. If you aren't sure, then don't hurt another woman just to get a boyfriend. You already had you chance and you ran.
2007-03-15 14:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is so using you! Likewise, he is kinda cheating on his new girlfriend. If you got a new boyfriend, wouldnt u mind that your boyfriend runs back to his ex to kiss instead he should be kissing you?? You know it is wrong and you know best. What you dont want for yourselves, you definitely dont do it to others. Keep away. You are human, but you can make a difference. If he loves you, he stick around for you. I see you are much more devoted to the relationship than he was, cos he moved on with a new girlfriend. If he says, he stills love you than what the hell is he doing hurting another innocent girl? Honey, move on.
2007-03-15 14:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there might be hope, but look at it this way. he has a gf but he's still kissing u right? now, he's doing this to that girl, what makes u think he wont do it to you if you two get back together. just think about it b4 u try n go for it. chances are that if you two do end up back together he'll do the same thing to you. my ex was doing this to me while we were together so i dumped him. well, after he got w/his new gf he tryda have me on the side but i didnt let it get to dat. so i know from experience that it's prolly not da best thing 4 u to still try n work things out w/him. especially seeing that he has a gf, it's wrong. dont play his game w/him @ all.
2007-03-15 14:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready or just dont want him with her. There is a difference, because if he is yours, will you be happy with him. Sometimes nostalgic moments paint the past as only beautiful. So think about the reasons you left him. If they still exist then you won't be happy with him, if he is yours again. Jealousy is an ugly thing and its hard to admit it when you are the one being jealous. However if you know its love wait if he feels the same you will, get together again.
2007-03-15 14:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he should have the decency to break up with his girlfriend if he is going to be kissing you. Don't let this go too far before he breaks it off with her. If he will cheat on her with you, what do you think he will do to you? He needs to be honest with the current girl and let her know that he isn't ready to be with her. When that clears he can work on a relationship with you. If he can't let the girlfriend go. then walk away before you get in over your head and get your heartbroken over and over.
2007-03-16 12:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by zookeeper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him. If he has a girlfriend but he's still coming to you, chances are he still has serious feelings. You need to be honest with him and he needs to be honest with u too. Love is too hard to find, and if its in yall, dont cheat urself out of it by being too scared! If he likes u, trust, he'll come back. Good Luck!
2007-03-15 14:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try but don't let it be on your behalf let it be on his if he wants to talk that's fine but i would not let him kiss you anymore because weather you like it or not he has a girlfriend and he is playing both of you and you could imagine how she feels. so just play it by ear sometimes when he call you be unavailable so it will show him your not the only one having fun...
2007-03-15 14:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by LuckyLadyL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you really want him first. we can trick yourself into a lot of things. guys seem more appealing when taken??
anyways...either
a) tell him how you feel
b) keep it inside and give up
c) destroy his current relationship from the inside, and be the shoulder he needs to lean on when it's all said and done
good luck to you!
2007-03-15 14:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by OrangeBunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt do that to the other girl just think if u were that other girl u would be really upset if another girl kissed ur boyfriend.
2007-03-15 14:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for him to be single honestly. There is always hope as long as your faith is strong enough to maintain it. Never let anyone take your hopes and dreams from you ever.
-NmD!
2007-03-15 14:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋