Tell me. Either...
List Character Trait(s) "Loser" Guys Have...
or
Mention an Experience in Which a guy has done something that labels him a Real Loser in your books.
2007-03-15 13:57:19 · 13 answers · asked by OrangeBunny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a guy is a total loser when...
*he flirts very obviously with other women--being really friendly is okay but there is a line and he's a loser if he crosses it
*he cheats
*he breaks up with you over the phone, email, text message, or a letter/note--its cowardly
*he calls you stupid, fat, ugly. (obviously he's a loser then, but you asked...)
*he sleeps around or...
*he sleeps with you, tells you he loves you then like 2 days later breaks up with you
*he gets himself drunk or high or stoned or smokes pot (there are a lot of loser girls too!)
-some women may say he's a loser if he forgets your birthday or anniversary or date of first kiss or date of first date or whatever but I don't agree, I think he's okay and forgivable for that--just don't forget too much!
I hope I didn't leave anything out and I hope that answers your question well enough
2007-03-15 14:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by katherinejean66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy is a total loser when he is disrespectful and disregards the thoughts of others. Also if a guy thinks so little of himself that he is too scared to show who is really is or it he as to insult people to make him feel more important.
I know this guy who as to put everyone down all the time. He always comes around where he's not wanted. I don't like him because he thinks he has to put on an a$$hole act to hide something. It's lame be yourself and no one can call you a loser because if you are happy with yourself you are a complete Victor in the game of life.
2007-03-15 14:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by crazy4orlando2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can have a lot of traits that make women sad or unhappy or frustrated, because every guy is unique and has their own background and history and reason they do things, but there are a few "unforgivables"
-- treat a girl like a slab of meat, or as if she isn't special. He doesn't have to wine and dine her, or go all out and spend money or ANYTHING of the sort, but he must do something to let her know that there is no one else like her
-- thinks with the head in his pants rather than the one above his neck. it seems almost dumb to have to say it, but girls have been saying it forever, and guys just don't seem to get it.
-- eating the dark chocolates in the box of candy your girl gives you and giving back the rest because you don't like them (that's from experience... DUMB)
-- cheats- if you need someone else to satisfy you, then either be with them or no one.
-- lies (believe it or not, I've met someone who doesn't lie. and yes, I've checked up on just about everything he does and have learned that he really is just an honest guy). If you need to hide something from a girl, you probably shouldn't be doing it, therefore are an untrustowrthy, losery jerk.
2007-03-15 14:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by MaggieMaeBrowne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does sound like a touch a loser. Im sorry :(. I ensue to imagine i'm a most suitable guy (no longer attempting to sound concieted) and that i dont start up fights opr have a list. i'm fantastic to my female friend and guard her so there are adult men obtainable which have a lot of potential and also you sound like a superb individual so I dont imagine you should problem. I do not ignore that you're lonely yet there is someone stunning obtainable for you. in case you dont experience like that's the guy then you definately ought to likely spoil it off. save assembly human beings and save your chin up :) ! There are some dousche bags obtainable yet there are fantastic adult men too. save a sturdy filter out and youll discover the proper guy who's sweet, treats you tremendous and is exciting to be with! sturdy success! Im particular youll discover what you're searching :) obviously, between the sturdy adult men
2016-12-02 01:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-Excessively jealous to the point where he attempts to destroy all relationships with your guy friends
-A wimp who can't stick up for himself- can't make up his mind, and doesn't know what he wants out of life
-Moody!- There is nothing more annoying to deal with than a moody guy- it is sooo difficult running yourself into the ground trying to keep them happy when it's not really your fault.
-Not open. A guy who makes it clear that there is something wrong, but won't talk about it and won't tell you what it is.
-Disrespectful. A guy who talks to a girl the way he'd talk to a pole dancer instead of a respectable lady!
-Overly perverted. All guys are to some extent, but too much is just creepy and makes them seem superficial.
-Conceited/Vain- never EVER brag about anything (money, cars, etc.) and don't look in mirrors too much
If I think of more I'll let u no!! :-)
2007-03-15 14:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Charlotte M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, as a guy i believe that a dude is a loser if he cant make it happen for himself. Gentlemen your parents were all good until you were 18 but after that its time to spread your wings. quit livin in mommas basement.
2007-03-15 14:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by billy_bong_horton 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it has more to do with their actions then what they do!
Traits as you get older can be quirky, but some people are attracted to them.
2007-03-15 14:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by loulou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy is a total loser when he beats his wife/girlfriend.
he controls everything she does... what she wears, who she talks to, how much money she spent at the grocery store...etc...
2007-03-15 14:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys who smoke weed all da time n just wanna sleep w/u every chance they get. those r TOTAL losers!
2007-03-15 14:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
-he puts you down
-he stands you up
- is rude to people (when they have done nothing wrong)
- cheats
2007-03-15 14:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋