they share a bathroom and it was over "moved shampoo",, the daughter that was scratched worst left and will not come back w/her two children untill the other daughter has been kicked out. She said she was just asking not to move her shampoo, but the other daughter was in her room. with the door shut, with her visiting husband, on leave from the army, when she knocked and told her not to move her shampoo. Words were exchanged and a cat/scratch fight insured. As the mother, who was not home at the time, should I kick out the daughter that got the better scratches in to the daughter that has the two children. I miss my grandchildren. This is tearing my family apart.
2007-03-15 13:55:58 · 10 answers · asked by SnowWebster2 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What a stupid thing to fight over. I think that the daughter that left and won't come back is being childish and setting a bad example for your grandchildren. However, I think that the one that did the most damage should just apologize.
Kick them all out, do you really need this kind of stress and anxiety in your life?
2007-03-15 16:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The daughter who moved the shampoo and got mad should leave. She has a problem. My wife and I and my brother lived with my parents for a while. When my brother tried to make moves on my wife, I told my parents to kick him out. He disgraces the family. But my parents want to be equal and love their sons the same. They said if I don't like it then I should move. Why do we discipline our children? Because we love them! It got worse. Now my brother and X wife have been together for 3 years still at my parents. I live in my own house with my 2 kids. Discipline is hard but you must do it. Also, when multiple family's live in the same house, products should be kept in their own room or bag.
Also, this may be an underlying problem they have with each other caused by living in the same house. Try to get to the bottom of it. Get involved. That is what parents are for; to teach and resolve.
2007-03-15 21:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. OMG what kind of animals did you raise?
2. Your kids really need to grow up and get out of your house. KICK THEM BOTH OUT!
3. Tell them when they can act like mature married women they may return and until then respect you and your home enough to never do this again.
2007-03-15 21:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by denise_in_ohio 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you cant take sides because you dont know the whole story. Second if your daughter wont bring your grandchildren to you go to them.
2007-03-15 21:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by supergrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them both. They both are proably very emotional, and try to explain to the both of them, that they have children and to fight is immature. Explain to them that you miss your grandchildren and it isn't fair to punish you in that manner.
2007-03-15 21:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by larua_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to take their fights outside. Give them boxing gloves and tell them "may the best one win."
2007-03-15 21:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
post a clip on youtobe
2007-03-15 21:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to grow up.
2007-03-15 21:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Shae O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO WHERE SHE IS AND SEE THE GRAND KIDS. THE OTHER CAN BE ON BASE HOUSING IF MARRIED.THEN YOU HAVE YOUR HOUSE BACK.
2007-03-15 21:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by tweed801 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you stay out of it, lest you be accused of taking sides or favoritism....they're both adults, they'll snap out of it.
2007-03-15 21:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋