i was going out with this guy i really liked but this other guy i really liked (guy B)said he would go out with me if i dumped the other guy (guy A) then guy b didnt break up w/ his gf to go out with me but i still stayed single cause he canstenly told me i liked him but the other day he left 4 a new skool and i want guy A back what should i do??
2007-03-15 13:45:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for you... to do the honest and good thing, just be honest and good to him. tell him how u felt and if he would be willing to date you again. and apologize for what u did. that's horrible. to be second. what happens if another guy comes along. now he SHOULDN'T take u back but hey if he does it's his mistake (if things don't work out) but as long as your honest then your doing the right thing.
be nice.
2007-03-15 13:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by lfis492aa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not going to happen. Guy A is probably so over you that you don't have a chance with him. If you wanted him then you shouldn't have left him in the first place. I'm sure that he will think the exact same thing. If he does decide to get with you again it will most likely be just to have sex with you and to use you like you are trying to use him. But I don't see it happening. If you want to have any chance then you should go talk to him and tell him that you really like him and that you made a huge mistake by leaving him for another guy. If you sweet talk him enough there is a very very very small chance that you may get him back.
2007-03-15 13:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is, how can you say you really liked Guy A a lot if you dumped him for Guy B. Think about it, Guy A would not appreciate it if you came back to him because he was really someone who was a second choice and not a first choice. Think about it if the roles were reversed. I think the ship has sailed and if you had any respect for Guy A, you'd leave him alone and let him find someone who will really like him. Show some level of maturity here! Come on!
2007-03-15 13:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Abeng CJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you didn't care much about "guy A" in the first place. Why did you leave him for the other guy? Obviously if you were that willing, then something must have been missing in the relationship.
Have you considered why you want this guy back in the first place? Is it because you want to be with him or because you dont want to be alone? I suggest you find yourself a new man, rather than cause this one any more heartbreak.
2007-03-15 13:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by axe happy juggalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sulk! You did it to yourself so unless you really want to tuck tail and look like a major fool to "guy A" then you may as well deal with it and chalk it up to experience. You showed "guy B" your true colors so why would he want to take a chance on someone that would do the same to him eventually? He played you to see what you have for character simple as that. If you went out with someone that cheated on their significant other to be with you what makes you think they won't do the same to you?? Another lesson in life! Works both ways ya know??
2007-03-15 13:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Wisco Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He used you. He would not want to dedicate.i be responsive to that would desire to be stressful yet you would be able to desire to permit him pass whether you sense any attachment in direction of him. you will purely make your self depressing by employing living on a guy who's basically not worth it. he will purely carry you soreness. you at the instant are not on my very own. This has occurred to many women- you at the instant are not the 1st and you certainly basically isn't the final. basically eliminate a effectual lesson and be careful next time. it will get greater helpful. each and all of the superb.
2016-12-19 06:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be truthful and tell him what happened. tell him how you really feel. the worst thing he could do is say no. But you would have to realize that you couldn't get upset because of that. You let him go. But if you are honest most likely he will reciprocate.
2007-03-15 13:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by carolina gyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Tell him how sorry you are for hurting him and that you will never do it again and that he deserves not to trust you but that you still care about him. Ask him if he'll take you back, but tell him if he doesn't you'll understand. This way he'll know you're for real.
2007-03-15 13:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by Charlotte M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn from your mistakes. Why should he take you back you treated him like second best to the other dude. Tell him how you feel and be honest with him and see what he says. Its his choice if he should take you back or not really.
-NmD!
2007-03-15 13:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take a lot of apologizing.
Usually, that kind of thing involves sexual favors.
And you're almost certainly too young for that to be a good idea.
2007-03-15 16:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋