we met at a school party. he asked me out but i turned him down at first. he asked again and I gave him a chance. we went out 3 times but there was no chemistry at all. he is a really sweet guy so before the third date ended i wanted to try for a 4th date. i didn't know what coz i thought he was really interested in me he bought me a lot of things and nice dinner.
At the end of our 3rd date, i was trying to flirt with him. but he told me sorry he thinks we should only be friends and didn't want to lead me on. Now I feel like a loser! I should have told him that first and he beat me to it! I cried and he saw and he thought i really like him that much.
But now we are friends who have lunch and go to gym class together. I still feel sore and embarrased. He led me on!
2007-03-15 13:45:03 · 3 answers · asked by chelsea k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about it. Sure he probably thinks he's the player of the year right now but usually when things like that happen - the feeling is mutual.
Don;t think of it as leading you on. You didn't feel a spark either, did you? So obviously it sounds like you guys gave it a shot to see if it would work - and it didn't. It's not much more complicated then that. Why ruin a good chance of friendship? Besides, confident women are sexy. especially when they don't want you.
2007-03-15 13:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by axe happy juggalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Don't feel like a loser! It obviously would not have worked out. Opposites, do not attract, contrary to popular belief. And you made a new friend, which will last longer than a boyfriend!
2007-03-15 20:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it...at least you made a new friend.
2007-03-15 20:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋