It seems like I have a problem with that. And I also usually like guys who are long distance away. Is it because everyone here where I live all are too inmature? I can't seem to help falling for someone already taken. And when I fall for someone, I fall hard. And usually it ends up that the guy starts liking me, but won't break up with his girlfriend. Anyone have any suggestions? That is how it is now with a guy that I like, and I'm so sick of it. I just want to find a guy that isn't taken...
2007-03-15 13:43:37 · 6 answers · asked by Crazy4horses 5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probably, subconsciously, enjoy the challenge of pursuing taken guys. I would add, because of the fact that you also often pursue long distance relationships, that you have put up some kind of emotional barrier. You won't let yourself fall for guys that can be 100% emotionally open to you; instead, you choose ones that will not fully commit to you. Perhaps, also, you do not wish to fully commit to a guy right now. In any case, some day you'll find Mr. Right: a single, emotionally available guy who will open up to you as much as you will to him. Just give it time... good luck!
2007-03-15 13:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok next time when you fall hard don't get hurt ok hahahha just kidding. it seems like you really need help to solve your problem. first of all the guy you really like he already taken and ofcourse he can't leaved his girl he still love her. and you are far from him, maybe if you close to him it would be a different story but the problem is you, stop getting fall inlove to a guy who already taken why don't you try to go out; clubbing, bars or hang out with your friend to the mall and you might meet someone there and please do not fall inlove easy, you've got to know him first and ask him what he likes and deslikes. if you showed first to a guy your feeling they will think that your too easy and guys sometimes don't like that, they want to get a hard time to find there love one is she is the one. even how many times you tell to the guy that you really love till death do us part he still not gonna believe you, showed it to him and prove it. just find someone who is not taken yet, there's alot of guys in the world just like your shopping and collect then pick the best one. good luck
2007-03-15 14:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by luvu4ever14344 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you notice patterns in you life that you don't like it's good to stop and think about it. If you are doing things that you know are wrong or aren't really feeling right about it then again it's time to stop and think about it. I have heard that sometimes we do these things to ourselves because we believe that we don't deserve something better. Could this be the case for you? Think about it. Go to the library and look for books on self esteem. Believe (spend some time thinking about it!) that you deserve someone free of complications and see if you don't get what you want.
2007-03-15 14:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by bluesky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are attracted to guys who are currently feeling secure about themselves because they have girlfriends. That happened to me a lot, and now is happening backwards. Now that I have a boyfriend many guys are appearing out of nowhere, simply because they see me happy and secure about myself and they seem to like what is already taken.
2007-03-15 13:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want what you can't have. A trait that you need to work about changing, it's not one of the better ones.
2007-03-15 13:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause you realy ant a threesum
2007-03-15 13:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by David Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋