i dont wanna sound "poor me" but im really down in the dumps. i had a bf who i really liked and asked out who said yes, and then i went on a great vaca and he dumped me the day i got back. my ex-best friend is now the most popular girl in school and doesnt even talk to me. we never got in a fight or anything. i just dont kno what to do...i feel like im at the absolute bottom of the wheel of life...any suggestions besides chocolate? <3 thanks
2007-03-15 13:42:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we all feel like that every once in a while...........your not alone. just put all your faith and trust in god,he'll show you the way!GOD BLESS YOU !!
2007-03-15 13:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life goes on. Your ex-best friend is not a genuine friend to start with. True friends take each other at any conditions, popular or unpopular. True love is can stand the test of time. So your ex-boyfriend definitely was not the one. Like it cant wait, he dumped you on the first day you came back. The One should have waited and made out with you in the airport. You just havent found truth yet. No, you are a strong girl, you dont need no sympathy. Get up from the ground and dont let these people push you back down. Move on. It is not the end of the world. There are other fishes in the sea. You dont know what is your next best catch. Back to the question, yes, i have once felt life is completely against you. Rite now.
2007-03-15 14:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really is just chocolate...sorry, schweety! There's another whole world out there besides the one you just described but you'll never find it because you're to busy living in the one that sucks. It's all up to you, ya know? Life can be great or it can suck...just ask your best friend who's now the most popular girl in school now. Do you think she's living in the world that you're in? No, she's moved out of that one and so should you.
2007-03-15 13:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats better tough when you really think about it.
I feel that way right now too and i have no clue of why it happening. But all i know is that later on its going to be your time to smile and be on top of the world. You just gotta go through circles first before you hit the top again. cus thats how life is it goes to sad to happy and happy to sad.
I hope you feel better cus I know how you feel =[
good luck.
ps. your ex bestfriend is not gonna make it any further cus she dont look back to where she came from before she even got popular so dont worry about her. you`re gonna be great.
2007-03-15 13:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always keep in the back of your mind these words: life is not fair. It helps to keep things in perspective as there are many people much worse off than you.
I'm sure you are a beautiful and charming women, you just picked the wrong guys. Pick better next time.
Remember it's called dating for a reason.
2007-03-15 13:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound rude or crass, but somtimes Karma picks good people to make her *****. I have this really good friend whose wife cheated on and left him, he got into a car accident, lost both kidneys to a strange virus, his parents both started showing Alzheimers signs, and he lost his apartment. ALL IN ONE MONTHS TIME!!!
The part that defines you is a person is how you react to the things in your life that make you karmas love slave. My buddy smiles all the time and tells people that they shouldn't be upset when bad things happen because he is dying and doesn't care.
Don't focus on the bad things and pay more attention to what you can learn from them and life will be alright in the end.
2007-03-15 13:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Nothing ever goes my way! Things that work out fine for the rest of the world always turn into a train wreck for me! I feel your pain... I wish I had something to tell you, but I don't. If you figure something out let me know!
2007-03-15 13:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by Charlotte M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he the only one in whole world let him go. And if you can't than fight for him. Make him feel jealous a lot or whatever u can. Take to other guys in front of him.
2007-03-15 13:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ashisweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
school doesn't last forever but the grades you get will. So, hit the books and maybe you'll meet a nerd like Bill Gates and you can go to your 5th yr reunion in a limo.
2007-03-15 13:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by dtwladyhawk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all their are other guys in the world so dont feel bad about that .....second ur friend is going to be unpopular again or not that popular anymore and shes going to be friends with u again they always do that
2007-03-15 13:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off your pitty pot and make some new friends. Life goes on whether you want it to or not.
2007-03-15 13:46:49 · answer #11 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋