I like this guy and i havent talked to him in like 2 years.(since I left my old catholic grade school to go to public middle school.)
He dosent like me cuse someone asked him.The other guy i like hasnt been on in like 4 months.But I know him from camp so he lives far away and is a year older than me. (I'm 14) I really want to go out with someone and these people are like perfect exept the 2nd one has a girlfriend and the 1st doesnt like me. I just need some advice and can't ask any of my friends.
2007-03-15 13:39:39 · 3 answers · asked by gracieburns92 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy likes me but he's REALLY ugly and annoying..I don't know if anyone else likes me
2007-03-15 13:45:42 · update #1
You probably won't like what I'll say but you'll probably expect someone to say it...
Take it easy! You are 14 for goodness sakes!
If you want to go out with someone go with your friends to the mall like 'normal' 14 year olds.
Please don't put such unneccessary pressure on yourself! You should be having fun with your girlfriends or guy friends playing sports, working on school projects, doing make overs on each other, learning new hobbies or crafts.
You may not believe it but you have plenty of time ahead of you to be nuts about not having a boyfriend...why start so early?!
Keep busy and occupy your mind and time doing good things.
Volunteer your time at an animal shelter or an old age home or teach a kid to read.
Work on yourself to become a well rounded, interesting person...that way an awesome guy will come into your life later and it'll be great.
I worry about your age group... if you are concerned about having boyfriends so strongly now it may lead to doing poorly in school and thus affect your future career and life.
Ask yourself how you picture yourself in 15 years...take that path.. There will always be guys around...take it easy for now and enjoy being 14 and not try to be 20.
Sorry if I sound like a rambling old lady but I talk from experience and observations... Give it a rest with the idea of boyfriends have guyfriends (platonic relationships) they are so much more fun because you can totally be yourself...
2007-03-15 14:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Gigi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the 1st one doesn't like you and the 2nd one has a gf, I suggest trying to find someone else who likes you and doesn't have a gf.
2007-03-15 20:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let life take its course...u will have a date when ur ready and dont act sooo desperate
2007-03-15 20:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋