I just can't seem to achieve it- definetly not courtesy of myself and not by oral- won't have sex quite yet. What is wrong with me? My fiance is a wonderful guy. I just don't know if it is him or me. I would just have to assume it is me. What can I do? I really want to reach this point- especially with oral!
2007-03-15 13:27:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What can I do or what can he do? Neither of us have 'experience'- so we don't know what there is to try...
2007-03-15 13:31:24 · update #1
for the person who said they didn't know my age...early 20s and getting married soon
2007-03-15 13:32:37 · update #2
contact me at dmorningstar73@att.net and I'll give you a whole bunch of ideas.
2007-03-15 13:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a vibrator and FIND your clitoris. Once you find out how to touch it, it will be easier to orgasm by your own hands, your fiance's, orally, etc. You will know when you find it, and will become stiff, engorged & hard. Then apply gentle pressure. Try to rub back & forth on it. Relax and don't be afraid of the orgasm. LET IT HAPPEN. Even a seasoned pro like myself stops shy of having an orgasm on occassion because it is so overwhelming. Use your hand so you can show him how to you like it. Then he can try with his mouth. Don't rely on your vibrator all the time or you will be unable to orgasm without it.
Good luck & enjoy =)
2007-03-15 13:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by brassinpocket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are saying you cannot even achieve orgasm by masturbating you probably should visit a [female] sex therapist.
But if you wish to continue trying with your fiance try this:
after lots of kissing and petting instead of doing 69 have him instead lay on his belly between your legs, with your bum on a pillow. That way he can take your erect cl*t between his bottom teeth and his tongue and really lick it while simultaneously sucking whilst massaging your thighs and fingering your anus - a most wonderful feeling and, for me, bringing to long and explosive and multiple orgasming. It's a WOW!
2007-03-15 13:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "big o" (not the tire store) is a combination of physical and mental peaks. If you aren't getting there, relax - you may not be at that point sexually. It will "come." Just enjoy the moment for now.
2007-03-15 13:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to tell him what you like and then just sit back and relax and enjoy the process.
2007-03-15 13:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isn't taking enough time to get you "warmed up". He needs to kiss your neck, caress you, kiss your breasts, and finally flick his tongue on your clitoris for at least five minutes.
2007-03-15 13:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how old you are but relax and worry about something else it will happen.
2007-03-15 13:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a vibrator and do things yourself until you get what you want.
2007-03-15 13:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn your self... he knows himself... tell him what you like ... its all about communication...
2007-03-15 13:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's him.
2007-03-15 13:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋