i have a boyfriend..i'm in high school, i love this boy, i liked him since 2nd grade, and now we go with together. we have been together now going on 9 months...he asks me to kiss him at school, and i dont feel comfortable doing that. i have no problem kissing him in private, or when we aren't in school. is that wrong???
2007-03-15 13:06:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. it would seem that to you kissing is personal and should be done in private the whole world doesnt have to see it or hear about it,sometimes guys want to just to say look who is on my arm,tell him how you feel if he truley likes you he will respect your feelings.
2007-03-15 13:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to kiss him, don't kiss him. You guys have been together for a long time, and I'm almost 100% sure he will understand. Tell him how you feel about this situation. If this doesn't work out, I would let him go. But, he would be a real jerk if he does not listen to you!! =)
IT IS NOT WRONG TO ONLY KISS HIM IN PRIVATE!
2007-03-15 20:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not wrong. A lot of high schools have rules against PDA's (public displays of affection) You just aren't as comfortable as he is with displaying affection in public. It's not wrong, just different than him. Which is fine, just because we date and love another person doesn't mean we have to have all the same opinions on everything. But your reluctance to kiss him at school might make him think you're not into him as much as he is into you. Just politely explain to him sometime when it's just the two of you, that it's nothing against him, you love him the same, but you just aren't comfortable with public affection. When you get to be my age honey, you'll get over that and are just glad a man wants to kiss you at all anywhere! LOL.
2007-03-15 20:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he should respect on how you want to do things to, but if you want to at school then that is your guys desicon but dont let him push you into anything that is never good but dont if you are just worried about what people will say then they really just need to get over their selves its your boyfriend and boyfriends and girlfriends kiss even if you want to at school.
2007-03-15 20:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not wrong. many people are not comfortable with pda (public displays of affection). also, school is not the most appropriate place to get lovey at. it is usually in the school handbook that they would prefer you not do that. either way there is nothing wrong with not wanting to. even if you love him.
2007-03-15 20:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by smiles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur eembarrased to kiss some one in public thats fine, but after the first few kisses than he might want to do it in public
2007-03-15 20:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not wrong. you need to do what you feel comfortable with. don't let anyone pressure you either.
2007-03-15 20:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by blondefaith65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its wrong if u love him u should, at least kiss him once
2007-03-15 20:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not wrong at all..I feel really weird kissing my bf in public...
2007-03-15 20:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel uncomfortable, that isn't wrong???!??!?!? Seriously, that isn't wrong. Just tell your bo that you need to get ajusted and are still getting used to things. Tell him soon, but not now!!!! OK??!??!? it isn't wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 20:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋