I have a friend who dated this guy and they were enaged..but they got engaged like within 2 mths..but they are no longer together,she dumped him for good reason and met some other guy and married someone else, within a week.anyways the guy she was with is a really great guy and i really like him and so far i know he likes me too.the problem is he is in the army in germany for 2 yrs. what should i do? could a realtionship work as im in united states as he is in the army for 2 yrs? should i talk to her,in a way i dont think she would care because she is married now.but im unsure what is best to do. help please!
2007-03-15 12:58:25 · 4 answers · asked by Andrea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she dumped him for NO good reason, and he is a wonderful guy..me and her dont speak much but him and i keep touch everyday..
2007-03-15 12:59:26 · update #1
I think it is almost impossible to be really close to someone who is on the other side of the ocean for two years. Your friend may have dumped him but it was not for 'no good reason' - they cared enough about each other to get engaged, for God's sake.
Maybe she and he both don't want to talk about the reasons for their breakup. You don't need to talk to her unless you think that there might be something you need to understand about their relationship.
If you keep in touch with him and you two are really close, even while he is in Germany, you need to spend a lot of 'face-to-face' time with hiim to know if he would be the right person for you in a relationship.
If I were you, I'd keep dating and stay in touch with him. When he comes back to the states, you can get to know him better but you won't feel desperate to make it work.
2007-03-23 01:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you already have your answer. Good men are hard to come by. If he's what you wnat and he wants you too, then go for it. You'll both find a way to make it work. Don't worry about her, she's got what she wants.
2007-03-23 14:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships are hard but if you think it will work go for it.
your friend is married now so you needn't ask her, she didn't want him that's her loss!
most importantly just follow your heart
2007-03-23 18:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by shygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart. do it,
2007-03-23 19:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by compleatlyinsane=] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋