I have two sisters...one older(whom I have never looked at as anything but my sister), and a younger sister(over 18) that has requested massages from me(nude), aloe vera body rubdowns when she is sunburned(nude)and seems to love showing me "the goods"(peep shots, etc) which I have to admit, have me very aroused. She innocently states that since i'm her brother, it's no big deal. I can't get the image of her out of my head, but I still can't refuse her when she wants some attention(and she has boyfriends, and has done some modeling, and she likes girls too).
I know I should not feel like this about my sister, but I don't know what to do. Anyone else been there?
2007-03-15 12:58:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She needs some psychological help. Go get it. Also, tell her that you feel wierd about it and not to put you in that position. GROSS...if my brother did that ..I would kick his ***!
2007-03-15 13:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Get un-confused.
You know that she's your sister. You know that you shouldn't do anything sexual with her. You know this.
Why is it important that you don't do anything?
If you do, it will ruin the way you interact with women for the rest of your life. Is that what you want? I hope you don't imagine a future with your sister. I'm sure you don't. And, you know if you do anything with her it will ruin you relationships with your family. A girl like her will undoubtedly run her mouth about what you did to her. Can you imagine that?
There are many reasons that this is a bad move. If I were you, I'd tell my parents about her behavior. Between the two of you, I would guess that she needs help more than you do.
2007-03-15 13:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by newmistakes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is deliberately tempting you. She knows it effects you when you see and touch her. She is carelessly pushin your buttons to see how far you'll go .... and then what ? Do you want to go through the rest of your life with the image of you and your SISTER having sex mixed with the memory of your parents finding out ?.... and they will eventually ... you can bet on that. ... along with your other sister and extended family members.Maybe the image of them watching you might help discourage your thoughts.
There are many beautiful girls out there ..... you should pursue one with some self respect for starters . Your sister has some issues to deal with and many regrets to look forward to in her life. You need to tell her she is out of line and get your thoughts under control ..... this isn't right ... I think you know that already so do the right thing and make a decision you don't have to be ashamed of .... you'll feel much better for it. take care : )
2007-03-15 13:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok look, there's definitely a problem with your sister even if she states that your her brother. She may be having fun thinking that she can do all the seduction she wants and not get feedback from you because, there, she said it, your his brother.
She feels safe from any sexual participation from you. Now that's not nice. Although it's natural that a person is gravitated towards the opposite sex, siblings not an exception, moral values and ethics ban these "taboo" things. So society does not accept it.
Now if you keep your feelings private, she may continue. Tell her boyfriends, or, your parents. Tell her too, in a non-threatening manner that you think that she should abstain from doing any sexually arousing things with you.
2007-03-15 13:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by Zygie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't accept that kind of thing. No, you can't handle that! You are her brother. You are supposed to love her only like a sister and brother should. It's wrong and messed up of her to do. I have 5 older brothers and there is no way I'd ever do that. She might be umm....what's the word.....skanky? lol. Just think about it. Sorry for sounding rude. But it is the honest truth.
2007-03-15 13:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by The Random Blonde 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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Gorgeous, seductive sister has me confused...?
I have two sisters...one older(whom I have never looked at as anything but my sister), and a younger sister(over 18) that has requested massages from me(nude), aloe vera body rubdowns when she is sunburned(nude)and seems to love showing me "the goods"(peep shots, etc) which I have to...
2015-08-02 17:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gorgeous, seductive sister is sexually abusive to you! Plain and Simple. You need to JUST SAY NO and find interests ELSEWHERE.
If you were mind to, you could have her arrested for sexual abuse (are you a minor?) It wouldn't be any different if it were your Mom or Dad doing that! You should have a talk with your Mom and tell her what your sister is doing! If not your Mom, talk to a clergyman...talk to someone!
2007-03-15 13:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by ConcernedMom 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Jerry Springer
2007-03-15 13:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by DumDum 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are human and more importantly, you are a guy. We are visually stimulated. The fact that she is your sister doesn't change that. You are still stimulated visually. You just have to catch yourself if you start having thoughts about her because you know that that is wrong.
2007-03-15 13:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by gt5879c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
EWWWW...shes ur sis and will always be ur sis..plus if u ever end up having kids (dont ever do this) they would be mentally challenged and all. So deny her whenever she asks for stuff like that cuz that is not a healthy relationship between sibilings. If u really cant resist..MOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Stay as far away from this horrible temptation as possible
Control Urself...u r messing with some deadly fire
2007-03-15 13:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let's see here. She likes men, women, and immediate family members. You have a first class skank there. Do not let yourself get into these situations with her. Imagine going to your doctor saying it's your sister that gave you the genital herpes. Run.
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2007-03-15 13:03:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋