Well, it like this, we been friends since the 7 grade since one of my other best friend introduce me to him, since she was moving over seas and ever since we he always had a huge crush on me, and when we went high school together and was still good friends, Then last year around Verlaine’s day I always buy balloons for myself and he came a long and ask me to pretend that I was his Girlfriend and I said not right now we are just good friends. Then he uses to always ask my mom for a ride home, and he met BOTH of my parents also. Then the falling year I ask him to go to the Homecoming dance with me, he says "yeah I go", but instead he wasn't even DANCING with me!!!! I was so angry, because he was dancing with a ruthless girl THE WHOLE TIME and she had a date (witch was my crush at the time) and then I was feeling so sad I was sitting by my self (like always) and then he notices that I was upset so, he keep saying "am sorry" and still doing the THING!!! What Should I Do is he a good friend to keep?
2007-03-15 12:57:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then he gets very mad when I like someone else. This is its ugly. It was Nov something and during our after school club, IE (Speech Club) I was reading my speech over and I want my (best) friend to hear it, but instead, TIFFANY have asked also. And he went TO her win the comparison. Then one Day I ask for his call, and he said “I don’t have a call, but I call give you my Home number and Tiffany was very angry and upset, she said to him “why you didn’t give ME your Home number”. And ever since she said or do something to my friend to stay a way, because we always hang out and we have a lot in common and he sang to me in Spanish and a lot of girls really want to be in my shoes, because (he so cute, in anther other girls eyes, but I try too look at him as a friend kind of). He use to ask me to go on a date with him and I said “I have many things to do" (but now I don't). And NOW he is avoiding me in school, and he barely want to say to me! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!
2007-03-15 14:14:11 · update #1
Unfortunately , things like this happen. I had a great friend since 7th grade, were in each others weddings, we both moved away , and now when we see each other things are different. You will have many friends throughout school, people change, their interests change, but life goes on .
2007-03-23 12:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by vivib 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breathe in, breathe out. Breathe in, breathe out.
Good job! ;) Ok, now you need to evaluate a couple things here:
1. Am I being the best friend I can be to everyone? Why or why not?
2. Which of my friends treats me the best? Why or why not?
3. Based upon my answer to those questions, what changes do I need to make in my life (if any) to be happy, and continue to have sucessful friendships with others?
Then, just forget about the past. Forgive and forget. Don't worry about who said what, or who did this. Just know yourself, believe in yourself, and be yourself! Whatever friends can treat and appriciate you for being you, deserve to be your friends. If some can't, then communicate to them why you feel the way you do. Don't hold grudges or bring up the past. Just explain to them your new way of postive thinking, and tell them you need more friends that can help you stay postive, and think positive, so you can help others to do the same. You sound like someone who really cares about others, so keep trying your best and don't give up. Be patient and bold and you can't go wrong. Good luck and hope that helps! :)
2007-03-23 16:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by Joshua R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What..... this makess no sense at all
2007-03-23 15:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by boxleaves 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋