is it me or the guys? i have green -blue eyes and am tall about 5'8/9 and am skinny... but what gets me is that it seems like that no one likes me i have a good personality and i am so nice to people and i always try to be nice sometimes i can be mean but i dont try to.i play sports like football, lacrosse, and basketball and is it wrong for a girl to like guy sports? i'm just a simple girl wanting to know why it seems like no guy likes me? and suggestions? me ..
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btw sorry if you read this already =]]
2007-03-15 12:56:30 · 11 answers · asked by jc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw i'm not so much tomboy i'm kinda girly but i dont mind getting dirty when playing sports or getting hurt and i'm bot a b**ch and i dont try to hard i make tons of jokes and am funny and act crazy... and i'm not stuck up ...i've been told i'm intimidating though i dont know why though...
2007-03-15 13:10:21 · update #1
You have to be who you are. But if you are a real ****** then nobody will want to be around you . Are you stuck up? always wanting to be the center of attention? You are just probably intimadating the guys you hang around with. They want to hang with the girls. No, there's nothing wrong with being a tomboy. You may want to join a new group of friends.
2007-03-15 13:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, people can be too "nice" because they're desperate to be liked. Personally, I'm more attracted to girls with quite dark senses of humour who don't shy away from saying things that might be controversial. They're more interesting. They can hold a conversation that doesn't bore me to tears.
Being interesting is not about how many sports or activities you claim to do, unless it's on a college or job application.
2007-03-15 20:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Cynicus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably have "one of the guys" syndrome. All the guys who know you think of you as a buddy, not a girl. If you're interested in one of the boys you normally hang out with, try luring them somewhere where you have to dress uop, and wear a dress. Otherwise, look for guys you don't normally hang out with. You'd be surprised at the number of good guy that you never see, because they're too shy to say hi.
2007-03-15 20:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by purrr:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you good at reading body language? They could be interested and you just haven't noticed.
Or, they just see you as a guy friend but a lot of jock girls at my school who kinda look like you (pretty, sporty) have so many boyfriends I'm surprised they an manage them all in one school year.
Point is...someone might like you and you can't read the signs.
2007-03-15 20:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Dev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i see by the photo, u look great, and sound like u r gr8 in personality, and all this stuff, i think it's the guys who are at ur round, u r gr8 and someday u'll find that special one 4 u, who loves u as u r, not how u look like, don't depress, there's only 1 life 2 live, so why waste it with depressions & things like dat
2007-03-15 20:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people assume you're maybe stuck up. So, they dont like approaching you because guys are afraid of rejection. You should make the move on the guys you like if you're desparate for guys.
2007-03-15 20:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn girl, i like you, a fit active girl, with great looks, so long as your pesonallity matches, i'd go out with you in a snap ;)
maybe they see you as a tom boy?? how old are you? its usually the girls that hang out with guys that get ignored, but when you hit like 17-20, the guys really start to notice you and appreciate you for who you are.
2007-03-15 20:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by daeman_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you'll eventually find just the right guy for yourself. I thought I'd never find a boyfriend either, until I met the right guy.
2007-03-15 20:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by flower_keeper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you certainly are beautiful. :) I, as you may guess, am not a guy so I can't really answer why guys don't like you. Oh, if only I knew!
2007-03-15 20:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys arent confusing its just that they are astounded taht a girl like you could participate in those sports.
2007-03-15 20:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋