im in 8th grade and me and this girl i truly love are bf and gf finally ....but i dont get why she doesnt talk to me at all....but what im really worried about is my first kiss..most 14 year olds by now have had a first kiss...i waqnt to kiss her but i've never done it and im really worried about it....i just dont know how..if u have any advice please tell
2007-03-15 12:55:55 · 14 answers · asked by kil_edward93 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had my first kiss when i was 19...
don`t worry...you`ll know what to do
2007-03-15 13:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by HC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. Well actually I think that you'd be surprised to know that most fourteen year olds have not had their first kisses yet. And you aren't like abnormal because of the fact that you havent. I will be sixteen soon and havent had mine. I could have by now, and Ive dated ppl, but i still dont feel like i have to or that i need to until i find someone worth giving it too. You only have one first kiss u know:).....If u r going to kiss her do not like plan it all out or anything..Then it WILL be weird....and probably wont go the way you planned anyways...So just spend more time with her, and only kiss her once you truly know each other well enough, and she Had to @ least be comfortable "talking" to you before she would ever be kissing you...It will happen when it happens..Dont fret your still young, and maybe u guys just need more time..Ive dated guys when i was your age with people for long pds of time and never kissed them, and now im glad, i want to wait, and if u want to kiss her cough up the guts and do it..I'm not a pro and i cant tell u how, but i think I'll get the hang of it, and who knows maybe shes thinking the same thing u r! Well good luck with all this "kissing business"
2007-03-15 20:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by little miss sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush thinbgs, if u are not ready for a kiss you will not enjoy it, things come better naturally. Your girlfriend maybe is just shy, or maybe shes scared about the same thing as you!, if u feel ready for it, get close to her, ask her how shes doing, if she wants to take a walk, sit on the stairs or in a place that u guys will be alone and you coould
1) invite her to the movies and kiss her there, u no, a romantic movie, a chick flick that she will like... tell her shes beautifull and kiss her.
2) or... get closer little by little, dont be awkard, just talk about things like...whatever she does after school, any sports u guys both like, favourite color, how nice her name is...nothing out of the world, just talk as if u were talkin to ur friends. BE U. and then compliment her a little and make the move, if she moves away apologize and dont feel stupid, just continue talkin like nothing happened, u no, just b coool. and if she kisses u back then thats great u had ur fisrt kiss!
GOOD LUCK!
OH..and make it smooth and not too long, if u wanna open ur mouth a little but dont stick ur tounge unless u feels hers first , if she wants tounge u will feel it. and try not to look to coreographed, u no, like u planned it all out last nioght before u went to sleep, talk to her any chance u have during the day and then on ur brake just go and try it out.
2007-03-15 20:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by v.n.d <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, I doubt that most 14 year olds have already had their first kiss - thats somewhat premature. Anyways, the first few relationships people usually have at that age are really uncomfortable and awkward and its not uncommon for one party to be distant like your girlfriend is being, its new and scary and shes probably really really unsure of what she should be doing so shes avoiding you. First kiss- start small, its her first time too? But just learn together, its easier than if one of you had lots of experience. Watch a few kissing scenes on tv lol.
2007-03-15 20:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont worry so much i am 16 and have not had my first kiss and nither have most of my friends only the ones that are like whores have so chill out dont worry
2007-03-15 20:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by antipipeline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have my first kiss until i was 18, I was so afraid to kiss someone and embarrass myself that i just avoided it until i was 18...I met an older guy and he was the best boyfriend i ever had I didn't wanna lose him so one day I just went for it, I twisted , twirled and stuck my tongue in his mouth , I didnt iknow if he knew it was my 1st time but it went well and after a while i just followed his tongue how ever it went....If she is a experienced kisser just follow her league, hold her head if you need balance. by the way im 21 now and her is27 and we are still together!!! just let it flow
2007-03-15 20:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by la_1stlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might get nervous around you since she likes you. Ask her out to the movies and watch a romantic movie. At the right time give her a peck on the lips and see how she reacts
2007-03-15 20:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ella F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when i was that age i hadn't had a first kiss so don't worry about it but one word of advice is no tongue the first time that ruins it for both people when it comes to their first kiss
2007-03-15 20:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by juicyjunebug14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyones first kiss is kinda nerve wreaking lol but if u think about it she has just as much experience as you do. Try not to be nervous...be confident even though you kinda dont know what your doing. And dont stick your tongue down her throat lol good luck
2007-03-15 19:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by Loveme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no stress. relax. you know why James Bond can't keep the chicks off of him. he takes charge. he's cool and calm. the mark of a real man. you're not a movie star. just a simple peck on the lips. and get back to your math homework.
2007-03-15 20:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by mokcasin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋