...He admitted to me that he was thinking of another woman...but first of all, I want to mention that I moved to New Jersey last July, plenty of miles away from the Virgin Islands, where he goes to school. It's been a year and until recently, he told me a part of his heart belongs to another woman (who I have known since the fifth grade). He said I had 3/4 of his heart and she has 1/4.
I broke into tears. Can someone tell me that ain't right? And it is not as if though both of them are really close friends--they only talk after church, that is what my other friends told me. I couldn't believe he said that "if you don't come back this year, I movin' on, and I will 'go' with her...but since you are coming back this year, I think I'll fight the temptation." My heart broke when he said that.
Were my other friends right about him: that he is a playa and a dog? We have been dating for eight years and I can't believe he doesn't think I'm worth waiting for another year. What do you think?
2007-03-15 12:23:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Afterwards, he kept saying that he does not want me heart broken and that he loves me, more that I could ever know. But it feels wrong to me. Who is he to say he loves me, but then consider another woman I've known for a very long time?
2007-03-15 12:26:27 · update #1
Yes, eight years is a long time, and he is wrong for doing that, but I don't know if I can {I know this will sound really pathetic} live without him.
2007-03-15 12:42:23 · update #2
Many guys burn a smouldering candle for an earlier love - I'm no exception. Check he wants you above all else. If not then cut yourself loose and find another young man whilst you can. Don't do anything rash - rebound relationships are not too good, but can, in rare instances work OK.
Good luck.
2007-03-15 12:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to piss off! I cant believe your even with him after he said he was considering leaving you for her! Dump him, 8 years is a long time to be with someone but you'd think he would have been more loyal to you since you've been an item for so long, I would get out now before you waste another couple of years with this loser, hes not worth the hassle
2007-03-15 19:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by stacie_yst 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can't help who he loves.... He isn't suppose to... 8 years is a long time. If he doesn't think u r worth waiting for then y bother? just move on if that is what u want to do .It will be alot better for u. A broken heart heals over time.... not over night...
2007-03-15 19:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go! He is not worth it. Any dog like him who says that you're only 3/4 of his heart is not in love with you. If he was truly in love with you he would only be thinking about you!
2007-03-15 19:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Codie C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best way in my opinion is come straight out and ask, don't play games, ask, if they are for the most part an honest person you will get an honest answer. Good Luck!
2007-03-15 19:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DITCH HIS PLAY BUTT! if he keeps doing stuff like this, drop him. He'll get the message. Tell him that he's not worth a move back to the Islands and you are happy where you are.
2007-03-15 19:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Manda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes not worth it.
u deserve so much better than that.
im sorry but u should move on.
2007-03-15 19:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is upstairs with my sister
2007-03-15 19:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by Britsrule 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋