Vic is a friend of mine, we actually dated over 10 yrs ago & recently found each other again but I feel like he wants to use me.I really care for him but I don't know how to let him know ,with out him thinking I'm crazy.
2007-03-15 12:21:51 · 13 answers · asked by Gatita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might think your crazy, but he may lie about how much he cares about you if he's just in it for the sex. Hold off on the sex for awhile and see if he's still interested. Personally, I believe in being honest, so i would tell him my feelings and if he thinks i'm crazy or his feelings aren't the same for me, then it's over and done with before any more hurt can be caused. Good luck.
2007-03-15 12:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by flipdout2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you two have in common is sex, then you should be cautious of this relationship. You need to be friends first then lovers. Sex is for the here and now. Friendship will stand the test of time.
2007-03-15 19:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to be direct. If he knows you are interseted then he can make a decision as well. Maybe he is thinking the same thing!
2007-03-15 19:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by magic13sf2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not going to think your crazy if you tell him that you really care about him and want more than just sex, if thats all he wants then he shouldnt expect you to jsut give out right away anyway, unless he has reason too think you would ;)
2007-03-15 19:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, by the sound of this question, I think you are...and I mean no offense what-so-ever by this remark. If you think he's only interested in sex and you're not, why would you want to be involved with him?
2007-03-15 19:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you introduced me to vic.
2007-03-15 19:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
he will not know if you don't tell him and if it is just sex he is looking for and you are not then you should make sure that he knows that, that is not what you want/
2007-03-15 19:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men (in an evolutionary context and not legal sense) are sexual predators - its a simple matter of biology
2007-03-15 19:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably knows your crazy by now, but just tell him up front ,that you don't want any BS from him
2007-03-15 19:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him any and see if he still comes around.
2007-03-15 19:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋