look i have a friend, he is very close to me, and he is friend of my boyfriends, right? and i told him im thinking about breaking up with my bf, and he went and told my bf, and then lied about it!! now my bf is soo mad at me. :( what should i do??
2007-03-15 12:06:28 · 12 answers · asked by Rae Rae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ur bf should smarter than that... and w/e he think doesnt matter, as long as u know u're not doing anything wrong! If i were ur bf I'd know better not to listen to his guy friends 'cause chances are they are bias.
2007-03-23 09:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ichigo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were breaking up anyway, why do you care? If you were not planning a break up, you have a problem. You have to let your boyfriend calm down a little and then, when the opportunity allows, tell him your side of the story. Tell him you do not want to interfere with the friendship between him and his friend, you just want the chance to tell your side of the story. Then never again tell a guy's best friend your problems with the relationship between yourself and his friend, unless you are ready for it to be repeated. Guys stick together the same way girls do. If he had told your best friend he planned to breakup wit you, what would you have expected her to do?
2007-03-15 19:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by brenda c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The friend seems very immature. You told him that in confidence and he just ran and told someone else without even thinking of your feelings. In my opinion, it was not his business to be sharing with people. And if you are thinking about breaking up with your boyfriend, just do it. You sound so young, that it isn't going to matter. You will find someone new and better in no time, and hopefully some good friends too.
2007-03-23 18:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you make the decision to tell someone something you have to accept the fact that, even if the promise not to tell anyone that they still might. Just like your boyfriend's friend did.
Your boyfriend is mad cause you said to the other friend that you might wanna break up? Id tell him, Yep, I said it and thats how you were feeling at that time. If its still how you feel than tell him. Why lie?
2007-03-23 11:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by arizonamiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well didn't you say you were contemplating breaking up with your bf? maybe you should get your bf to talk with you about it all, or write a note to him explaining everything. You can't blame him for feeling hurt about this, but he deserves to know what's going on. Good luck = D
2007-03-15 19:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by poppyseed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were planning to stay friends with him then talk to him and say how sorry you are that you found out that way but if you weren't don't worry about it, he's done you a favour, you now don't have to dump him yourself and you know that you can't trust that particular friend
2007-03-23 18:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by shygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't trust him again for sure but perhaps he has done you a favor after all if you are going to dump him does it really mater to you that he is mad. if it matters a great deal then are you sure you want to dump him. sounds like you still have feelings for him.
2007-03-23 16:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by fushia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you were going to or thinking about it, unless you still want to go with him, if you don't then move on. if you still like him its probably to late to fix it now,
tip, you sould keep thoughts that could change something with others like relationships to yourself, or at least your on freind not theirs
2007-03-23 18:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by coley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time talk things over with your man not his friend. maybe the friend is loyal to him or wants you for himself.
2007-03-23 18:57:33 · answer #9 · answered by iwill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were breaking up anyway... Dont worry about it... Move on!
2007-03-23 19:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by ~~smokee~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋