Any Thoughts?

Question

I like this guy who I totally clicked with. We talked like crazy We have the same interests, goals, and dreams. However, when I try and keep in touch with him (we met while I was visiting another state) he won't reply. His friend, however, keeps in touch with me all the time. But I feel like horrible person because it is not him I am interested in. My friends say it is because he is the one that likes me. Do you think this is true? Should I wait for the one I really like? Do you think the one I like may be trying to avoid me because he knows his friend likes me? Just trying to get some thoughts on the situation. Thanks in advance!

I am 18 by the way

Answer 1

that kinda happened with me too. i think that you should ask his friend where the heck this guy that U like is. the guys friend may like you, but how much do they both measure up on the scale? which one do u like better? is the guys friend a nice person or is he rude? b/c he might be a good guy to be in a relationship with..

Answer 2

Uh, no doubt the guy who you like won't respond because he knows he's friend is crushing on you.

You can either give it time and hope to all things holy the guy crushing on you will get over it after not seeing you for awhile so you can try the guy you like or you can move on with your life. It's a matter of preference and how long you're willing to wait.

Answer 3

I was in the same situation. I ended up going for his friend. His friend wouldn't be talking to you if that guy you like would'nt let him. There is a good reason there. Who knows, you might start liking him back.

-Stacey

Answer 4

I don't really know how to answer this question because it sound like you are very young children and I'm not one to give you info on bforgf question when the question sound like a young kid has posted it sorry I don't swing that way.

Answer 5

NO