People are always rude to me, and I think it's because I'm better than them and it makes them angry. Does this make sense? It's not fair that just because I have an amazing wardrobe and am thin and good looking and nice to people that they have to get all angry about it! Right? Like O My God, have some manners!
2007-03-15 11:53:03 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
LOL, that was a good one!
You are joking, right?
If UR not joking, then OMG......
2007-03-15 12:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by greengo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people are rude to everyone because they don't know any better. Perhaps they are insecure with you because of your wardrobe, behavior, etc.
When examining them, also examine yourself. What image are you really projecting. One of confidence and security as a woman. Or, one of "I know I'm better than you." Only you have the answer to that.
If people are rude to you, let them know how you feel. They may not even realize they are being rude. We all pick up communication habits in our homes and we all come from different home environments. Some are more sensitive to the feelings of others and manners, some have never learned.
Perhaps you are in a position to improve your feelings and relationships with these people by being open and discussing with them what is bothering you.
If it doesn't work, at least you tried. Wayne Gretzky was quoted one time as saying "You miss 100% of the shots you never take." Well take that shot. If you miss, move on. If you make the shot, look what you've won.
2007-03-15 12:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by sandya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my opinion, I would think that it would be sad if people hated you because THEY think you are better than them. However, from what you wrote, it seems to me like because YOU are the one who thinks you are better than everyone else, I can understand why they may not want to know you. But hate you? I would never hate you... Especially for that. I may not want to know you once I figured out that you believe you are better than everyone else. I am happy for you that you have an amazing wardrobe, that you are thin and good looking and that you are nice to people. But I feel somewhat sad for you because you are under the impression that you are better than everyone else. But, hey, live and let live!
Have a nice day!
2007-03-15 15:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they hate you because just as you can sit there and see all these great qualities about yourself they can see all your negative qualities that you just cant seem to see or don't want to admit too such as your ********* and arrogance, your mindset that your wardrobe is better then everyone Else's that would be a personal preference to that individual they may actually think your clothes look retarded and let you be you.as far as you being nice to everyone there is being nice and then there is acting like your **** don't stink and being condescending about it and not trying to hide the fact that you are being that way it comes off as your an *** kisser and that's a role everyone hates and just checking usually don't 13 yr old girls use the phrase LIKE O MY GOD not a guy that probably gets you in the **** tank quick too start acting like a guy and not a prissy diva and maybe peoples perception of you will change until then everyone will just hate you
2007-03-15 12:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by bretmaverick91969 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I read the first line of your question, I WAS going to say they were just jealous but... after reading the rest of your question, I'd have to speculate that you probably have a high enough opinion of yourself for everyone and should just be glad YOU like YOU. Honestly, you sound a little full of yourself and that tends to put people off a bit. Like O My God, even if you think your better than everyone else, have some manners and try not to flaunt it! (And if you do think your so much better, why do you care what they think?)
2007-03-15 12:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, they probably don't hate you because you are better than them, they might not like you because you may think you are better than them.
Sometimes it is just jealousy, at others it's someone's overblown ego.
Guess what? I was a girl who was good at alot of things others wanted to be good at. It wasn't just me telling myself that! I was good looking, although I didn't really know that at first, and I didn't dress in nice clothes. I was thin & big breasted, and very nice to everyone.
I never figured out why alot of people didn't like me. I didn't know that life was some sort of big competition! I thought people didn't like me because of my clothing not being up to par. That wasn't it at all. I didn't judge people an any thing but how they treated others. It seemed though, I was being judged, but on what? Jealousies because I was a good singer? Jealousies because I was a good artist? Jealousies because I understood boys & didn't have a problem talking to them & getting along like friends? (I was a bit of a tom boy at times!) I still, to this day have researched the reasons why. The only thing I could come up with that made any sense at all was this.....
Ferimones
Oh, the root of it all came crashing in! Humanbeings put off ferimones to attract the opposite sex. Have you ever noticed that in the animal kingdom, when there is a battle over something, it's alot like how people battle for a normal life? Women just don't like other women for some reason... could it be because her ferimones are telling other females this girl is a threat? A threat to what? A threat to her status in the male community? I don't really know, but with all of the times it has happened to me, and I didn't do a single thing to ward anyone off in any way, I came to the conclusion that I have absolutely no control over what ever it is. I am nice to everyone, yet some people just don't like me.
As long as you're a nice person & pass no judgement upon others unless they just aren't nice, and as well,don't act like you're better than they are, I see no reason why people shouldn't like you, but apparently, it still happens. Good luck with the trying to understand it!
2007-03-15 12:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by lisalikes70scheese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't have a clue. But, perhaps, you could have a party, inviting the Getty's, Vanderbilts, Prada family, Stella McCartney over to assess your wardrobe. I'm sure you would be a 10 on their list.
Good Luck and Warm Wardrobes.
2007-03-15 12:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by mitch 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why would people hate you....maybe because you think you are better than them. get a clue people dont hate you for locks or anything else I think the question you need to be asking is why would I post something that sounds so stupid? you made yourself look like an idiot take time and reflect within
2007-03-15 14:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by KarmicFacilitator2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's why people don't like you...I've only read one paragraph about what you have to say and I can already tell that you are either, full of ****, because is anybody really like this or if this is the truth your self-righteousness and vanity are a big turn off. Enjoy the single life!
2007-03-15 12:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by Cat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can be better than other in some aspect...
You can´t have it or nor know it all.
You´re problem is that you must be some Mr. Perfect and no one can put up with this.
Were I you, I´d come to Earth because you´re not as good as you think. Seriously.
2007-03-15 11:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by Lucianna_ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and your better than me because so what if you have a good wardrobe so what if your thin who tells you your goodlooking that dont make you better than meits your attitude that makes people angry what you have and what you look like dont matter its personality that counts and from what youve put about yourself i dont see too much of that
2007-03-16 01:34:51 · answer #11 · answered by arniesmum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋