i'm almost 18 and i still never had my first kiss and i've never had a boyfriend... whats wrong with me
2007-03-15 11:46:30 · 34 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
20 is when I had my first kiss. Take your time, you are still young and young at heart.
2007-03-15 11:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by acuraboy1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. Everyone starts dating at different ages. Just because you haven't found anyone special enough and right enough for you to date yet doesn't mean you're not good enough, or there's something wrong with you.
And don't feel bad if you read a lot of answers saying they had their first kiss when they were 12 or something. It's better for you to have that special first kiss when you can appreciate, rather than have it be a result of some spin-the-bottle game or something.
*****EDITED TO ADD: And don't listen to that idiot who said: "umm you need a bf, i had mine early..like 5th grade or something". Do they sound mature to you? Because it sounds like someone who probably only 12 now. It annoyed me, because you don't "need" a boyfriend, a kiss in 5th grade is not a real first kiss!!
2007-03-15 11:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 and I have never been kissed yet either.Or have had a boyfriend. The time will come when the moment is right. That's what I believe in.
2007-03-15 11:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 when I first had a kiss. He was a friend of a friend. He and my friend and I were hangin' out one summer night, and all night long he was smiling at me and finding excuses to touch my arm or my shoulder. Finally, out of the blue, he just plants a kiss on me. It was a good kiss, even though it came as a total surprise. We never dated, and I saw him only a handful of times after that.
Don't be discouraged. It may sound like boring advice, but I think if you hang out with friends that like you as you are, eventually you'll find someone who also wants to kiss you. OR, you could always just plant a kiss on someone you think is cute. That's what he did. Good luck.
2007-03-15 11:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by newmistakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first kiss was strange and painful. I was 9. Playing in the school yard a girl hit me in the head with her metal lunch box. I was crying and bleeding. I don't know what her motive was, but she quickly shut me up, by pressing me against the fence and laying one on me.
Yes , I still remember it. As to why you haven't crossed that barrier as of yet. There are many variables. Life isn't fair.
!. could be that you may be in a category not considered "the norm" I call it the too category.
Too heavy, too thin. too tall, too short etc.
Make yourself more approachable, be friendly also be aware of who's looking at you. Your time will come. Everyones does
2007-03-15 11:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first kiss was in kindergarten technically, but I consider the first real one to be in third grade. There is nothing wrong with you, you just have to be patient because it happens when you stop wishing for it so hard you cry at night. Try being more outgoing also, if you see a cute guy be like "Dam* you fine" or something to that effect!!!
2007-03-15 11:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by mya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend who got her 1st kiss and 1st boyfriend, when she was 19. another friend when she was 20. another friend still didnt have a first kiss (21), i got my first kiss when i just turned 17. my best friend got her kiss when she was almost 18.
They are all very pretty girls,so i dont know why...
2007-03-15 11:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mystery_gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with ok?
Don't rush into nothing- wait for the right guy and it will happen
Society has painted an untruthful picture of when and what age we should have a kiss with someone..
You are still young-Give it time.... Good luck :-)
2007-03-15 11:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age 20.
2007-03-15 11:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first kiss was my mom at the age of 6. anyways, its normal. i shall not kiss anyone until im 20-30 years old. kissing leads to sex O_o. but thats a bunch of bull. if you try to stay single, your gonna have a better life cause guys just leech off of you and possibly only wanna stay with you until your vulnerable for, you know... thats what most guys think.back where im from ive been observing teenagers for 4 years, and im only 15. i learned that most guys want the sex, but keep it hidden so they dont gross out the girl they r hitting on. this is that corrupt society as we know it. STAY SINGLE until your 21 and make right choices...
2007-03-15 11:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is wrong with you I've alway's beleived there is someone for everyone when you meet him you will get your first kiss and plus it might make him feel good that he's the first guy you've kissed
2007-03-15 11:51:10 · answer #11 · answered by admsf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋