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Teenage relationships can be awkward and even impossible.
Yes it's easier for the real cute guys, to a point.

So many guys ask questions about the approach.

I know you send out signals when you like a guy and don't want to be obvious. While you're looking at the guy you admire , some heart broken guy is looking at you, but you don't see him.


What can he do. Give up the secret.

2007-03-15 11:41:22 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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what you have to do is speak. really we don't notice them that much b/c they don't take the risk and put it out there. sometimes people can be a little shallow, but you cant always expect for a female to notice who is standing in the back ground. it goes both ways as well. so many people get on here and ask......... how do i get him/her to notice me?
if your not going to take the risk to stand out....... then how would people notice you there??.......... you have to make yourself known, speak up....... im not saying it has to be some major gesture!!!! im just saying talk to the object of your affection and don't be timid, be you....... show some personality........ that's how you get seen/ noticed

2007-03-15 11:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by jazzy 3 · 1 0

When you catch her staring at you, hold her stare, then smile.

If you like her, when she talks to you, look into her eyes.

If you want help, watch Greys Anatomy, and think about why all girls are in love with Dr McDreamy. It's in his eyes. It's the way he looks at the girl like she is the only person in his world. That's what every girl wants.

The next step is stop waiting a week to return her call. If you like her. Call her. The whole waiting thing drives us chicks nuts.

When you have the signal. Don't be shy. Girls like confident (but not cocky) guys. So just ask her out!

Take control, but don't over rule, the relationship. Treat her like a princess. Open the door for her, etc.

It's not hard. It is the simple little things girls want! We want the fairytales our parents have read to us since we were two. So become our prince Charming.

2007-03-15 18:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0 0

Haha, I asked this question a while back and guys were reluctant to give up their secrets.

But, us girls have too many secrets under our belt - we can let some go for free.

You want her to notice that you like her:
1) Eye contact - us girls read A LOT into eye contact. Catch her eye, hold it for 3 seconds, then look away. Don't do it too much or she'll think you want to shove in her a dark closet. If you catch her staring at you one day, look back, hold for 4 seconds, smile, look away and DON'T LOOK BACK.

2) Friends - know one of her friends that talks a lot? Or a best friend that tells her EVERYTHING? Go up to them one day when they're not with the girl you like and say, "So where's your friend [insert name here]." When she answers and says, "Why?" (she most likely will), just shrug and say, "Just wondering." Then walk off. Her friend will report everything back to her with every miniscule detail and I'm sure that girl will be thinking about you even more.

Good luck!

2007-03-15 18:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Your question is a little hard to understand exactly what you are asking, but if you are asking how to tell if she likes you, that will always be a tricky one. You'll have to go with your instincts, is she really giving you signals? If you think she is, then maybe ask her to do something with you, outside of school, and see what she says. Do you spend time with eachother on the phone? Will she be on the phone for hours listening to you? Then chances are good she is interested!

2007-03-15 18:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by devilishlyinnocent79 1 · 0 0

Honestly the only real answer i think could help it just talk to the girl. Just say hello, ask her how she is. I know this is old usual advice that everyone says. But its old usual advice because it usually works!! Build it from there, dont put yourself under too much pressure to impress the girl, believe me she will know. Dont be arrogant or try and be 'macho' guy to get her to notice you, just talk to her, person to person. Over time feelings may develop, they may not but you'll never know unless you try and you cant lose what you never had in the first place.

2007-03-15 18:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Chyme 6 · 0 0

He can show all his heart out and always be true if she keeps on cruising on someone else then she's probably playing hard-2 get . She's probably wanting u 2 ask her out to see your strength and weaknesses . cause no girl wants to ask a boy out they want u 2 do it (make the first move).be strong and show her!

2007-03-15 18:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by NaKayla J 1 · 0 0

AW!, you wanna know something, try to be her friend first, then she will probly get to know you more.... However, try to find a common groung, like if you have the same class or something.... that can be a tie, find something that ties you two that is separate from the other guy....

2007-03-15 18:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by larua_2005 3 · 0 0

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2007-03-15 18:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by steve wilson 1 · 0 0

He can be my friend. People usually aren't friends with people they aren't attracted to in some way (emotional or physical).


Physical attraction can only go so far.

2007-03-15 18:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0 0

sometimes you can't do anything.
Just try your best to strike up a friendship with her. See what happens.

2007-03-15 18:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by phxchik07 5 · 0 0

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