This girl is always flirting with my guy that I like it's so annoying. She such a flirt to every guy. Always trying to sit next to him & talk to him. I don't want to be rude to her, but this is like my last straw.. plus he stares at me and not at her... but I don't know if I should be worried or not? How can I get this girl off my back? I'm shy so it's a little hard.. so give me reasonable answers thanks. =D
2007-03-15 11:38:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always stare at him and he always wants to go close to me, but then the girl comes along and like sits infront of him or whatever when we get to choose seats in health. Goddd. He flirted before with me, WINK/STARED/SMILED I did the same thing before except for the winking. Isn't our feelings the same? Why can't that girl just leave him alone I've liked him longer?
2007-03-15 11:40:15 · update #1
Ok. LOL. he's not my boyfriend though.. but I wish that's my problem i think me & her like him so I don't know but it seems my crush likes me because he stares and we at least talk a little here and there she just talks wayyy to much to him.
2007-03-15 11:51:50 · update #2
When she sits next to him, go up to him and ask him if he could help you with a homework problem, and if he says yes, look at her and say, excuse me, I need to sit here. If she doesn't move, he will think she's a total jerk so she will most likely move. And that will leave the two of you...
2007-03-15 11:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by larua_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not her you need to talk to, it's your boyfriend. Tell him that you feel a little neglected when he's paying so much attention to another girl in public, and you'd really like it if he'd cool it.
If he tells you you're being silly, he's belittling your feelings. You have every right to feel annoyed. Most likely, he'll tell you he didn't even realize it was bothering you. And, once he knows it does bother you, if he keeps it up, he's inconsiderate and you may want to reconsider the relationship.
2007-03-15 18:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by gamergeekgirl_otter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop a flirt. She'll just flirt more if she knows it bothers you.
Your boyfriend obviously likes the attention, so beware. Men are weak. Thats why he shifts away from you when she comes around.
This doesn't look good for you if he is doing this. Trust me...
Better tell him it bothers you before it gets out of control.
2007-03-15 18:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by RJsGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and be a little pissy with her in front of him and move closer to him. When my girl gets possessive it boosts my ego and it will his too. She is being really rude to you for even trying this crap so don't worry about giving some back. If your bf tries to defend her behaviour then you know you are about done with him anyway.
2007-03-15 18:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Pooky Bear the Sensitive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she needs to slow her roll and back off your man! sounds like he doesnt like her. to make yourself feel better ask him. be honest and talk with him and tell him your feeling about the situation.
2007-03-15 18:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by Desiree G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight her
2007-03-15 18:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by Hector H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋