i don't no what to do
my boyfriend is constantly playing sports and he never has any
time for "us" and he kinda flirts with the girls that play soccer with him and several other guys and he just plays soccer while i
mope around and feel sorry FOR MYSELF because he's not there to make me feel better
so...... what should i do to end this thing(problem)
should i ........break up with him or.............
should i just let it pass by(like the fact that he DIDN'T get me a valentines day gift though he said he would!!!)
2007-03-15 11:15:27 · 12 answers · asked by killerqueen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about it first. Express your concerns and tell him these things. Decide what to do from there. Don't make any decisions until you talk to him about it. But no, don't let it pass by.
2007-03-15 11:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Cassie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would talk first, as was already said...but if you are into commitment and he isnt then he isnt worth your time, and chances are you deserve better and he will wish he had been a better person. it isnt fair of him to leave you hangin like that. if he makes a big deal and gets deffensive then you know what needs to be done...but if he actually takes what you say into consideration then maybe he is worth it.
either way things can only get better from here. he will either realise what he is doing and stop, or he couls be a jerk and you two could break up....wich is good becaus ethat means that YOU get out of what could be an emotionally unresting relationship.
good luck. boys suck. <3
2007-03-15 11:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Miss. Advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhhhhh, it sounds like you are very young, and chances are you will have many more boyfriends to come-young guy(well even old ones ) flirt.....when people are secure with their self and their relationshio things like that don't always really bother you unless maybe it is an ezcessive thing.
But if you are moping around, then its quite clear you are not happy-maybe you should tell him how you feel(if you havent)
but if it is a jealousy thing more or less on your part you will always have problems in any relationship-good luck to you
2007-03-15 11:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, don't waste the best years of your life on a boy! Hang out with your gal friends! Join a school club or a sport activity or volunteer. It's not up to him to make YOU happy. Next time buy yourself your own box of candy! :-)
2007-03-15 11:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt have time for you nor does he want to make the time, maybe because you snivel and gripe all the time while he's having fun. How do I know? He doesnt do what he says he is gonna do, except when he spends time away from you.
2007-03-15 11:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by element_op 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds lame, but have a chat with him if you think he's worth it and tell him your troubles. If he doesnt change, then get rid, you can go away knowing that you tried and get someone who deserves you :]
2007-03-15 11:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by Black Magic; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. If he really likes you he will at least try to make some sacrifices. If not, then he doesnt really appreciate you.
2007-03-15 11:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop playing and let him up time for you
2007-03-15 11:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by Holy Joe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So he flirts with the dudes as well ? Dump him.
2007-03-15 11:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get rid of him he sounds like a loser....get sum1 who deserves u! x
2007-03-15 11:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋