i`ve had a glass or three of wine and feeling rather peed off with this guy,he gave me his number and we were texting and calling since friday,he didn`t turn up at my house last night(he asked to come over)as it was his night off work(i know him from his work)and he didn`t know my address or have any credit in his phone,anyway he said he really liked me and wanted to take me out for a drink and we are both shy,anyway he hasn`t been in touch and i`m going to see him in his work on saturday so do you think i should call him and see what he says?I`ll just play it cool and say it`s fine if he`s changed his mind and that i didn`t want there to be an atmosphere when i see him on saturday at his work,what do you think?It`s really annoying me!!
2007-03-15 11:14:11 · 9 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call him
2007-03-15 11:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Holy Joe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, big mistake.
The contradiction here is that you want to tell him that it's fine if he's changed his mind and you don't want an atmosphere yet you're really peed off and it's really annoying you
Best to leave well alone, and when you see him then act like you're not really that bothered.
2007-03-15 18:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nati - Life is too short to allow your self the stress of worrying about these things. For crying out loud call the guy, he's probably more nervous/anxious than you may be. My perspective.
2007-03-15 18:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you do nothing if you call him he will think you are chasing him or that your desperate or some thing just walk in on saturday as you walk by him smile and say hi like you never noticed he never showed up and that will make him think nothing more just a smile and a hi as you are passing.
2007-03-15 20:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES take the chance and call him. if he likes you and he is shy he may be waitingf for you to call.
the worst he can say is don't call him again. or drop dead.
if he did i'm certain he would be classed as an idiot.
good luck and i hope it works out for you both.
2007-03-15 18:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act as if nothing has happened if he is interested he will make it known.
2007-03-15 18:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by ANDREW J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call him and talk to him.....explore and you might discover something you might like or...not
2007-03-15 21:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already answered your own question...yes call him...tell him how you feel
2007-03-15 18:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah call him.
2007-03-15 18:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by blah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋