It isn't like she would have a whole lot of other options.
So I guess by using her for sex the guy would really be doing her a favor?
2007-03-15 11:11:54 · 26 answers · asked by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did a good thing here Shark gumbo
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You posted 2 questions, same language using the preconceived notions of what each gender is supposed to bring to the relationship and asked if fat had anything to do with how these folks deserved to be treated.
I'm encouraged that almost unanimously people say no it is not right, ethical, moral whatever to take something from someone simply because they should be appreciative of your [implied you] interest because they have no other option.
Most people see that for what it is, behavior by one damaged person looking to hurt another in an effort to gain something that they think minimizes both people.
Perhaps there is some hope for the human race after all.
2007-03-15 20:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by ajtheactress 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not a nice thing to do. Women aren't dog crazy about sex like men are. We actually get ourselves off better. She will find the right guy for her & have sex then. She doesn't need took advantage of. It will only lower her esteem more.
2007-03-15 18:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by J Doe 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is terribly wrong. A true friend let alone a person, should never take advantage of someone because of something that they are not proud of, they should be helping them out. If someone is trying to have sex with you because say, you have bad acne, so they are going to take advantage of your low self esteem and try to take you to bed, are they a real friend?
2007-03-15 18:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by charmedwitch94 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing by answering this question I'm taking advantage of your dumba$$ and getting an easy two points. Listen a$$hole, taking advantage of anyone for any reason is not doing them a mother f*cking favor, dipsh*t. Grow the FU*K up. Oh and on a side note? Some men like full figured women. Like me for instance. I don't want a half starved twig (no offense to you ladies out there who are thin by nature, I'm refering to the women with severe anorexia/bulima disorders who need to seek help before theyre in a relationship to begin with... or are sheerly so vain that its sad). I like my women healthy, happy, and most of all comfortable with herself. Personally I perfer curvy women because I figure Im flat as a board, hard bodied as a rock, and have no curves. No hips. None of those lovely things that are expressly FEMININE things. I like females and I like women who look like real women to me. I enjoy touching something soft, curvy, with hips and things that I don't have. I want to touch something different than me. If I wanted hard bodied, stick thin, straight up and down I'd touch myself. THANKS!
Fuc*ing a$$hole.
Jazz
2007-03-15 18:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, somebody just did that to my friend and she is so hurt by it...when she asked about a relationship he blatantly told her she was too fat for him, though he had no problem sticking it in her u know what im saying..this is horrihble and rude and cruel...your not doing her a favor...she might get attached and fall in love. she does have other options just cuz a woman is larger doesnt mean shes useless to society and has no options.
2007-03-15 18:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no it is not right. You would be taking advantage of a type
of handicapped person. If you have to take advantage of
an individual to get lucky,you must not be all that.
Get your act together!
2007-03-15 18:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by cheyenne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a real winner! And as far as her options you might be surprised. Why don't you go seek therapy and quit wasting every ones time.
2007-03-15 18:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ian and Tate's Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your questions sure shows us a lot about u!
Why would the guy/u sleep with her if he has a whole lot of options himself!
2007-03-15 18:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You gotta be kidding me! Would it be right for me to slam your pp in the car door on purpose? After all, I'd be doing you a favor so you wouldn't keep thinking with your SMALL brain and doing stupid things and using people then disposing of them like GARBAGE! (not to mention the favor I'd be doing all the women in the world!)
SLAMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 18:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
She is a human being regardless of her size. What if someone decided that you were too ugly, too skinny, too broke, too stupid, etc. and thought of doing the same thing to you for those reasons? Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
2007-03-15 18:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by bombastic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋