Is less than two months too soon to decide to move in with someone? What if the other party had just broken up with his on/off girlfriend of 3 years a month before meeting this new person? Anyone know that "stats" on these intense/fast relationships, or should it be looked at as any other relationship without picking it apart?
2007-03-15 10:58:09 · 12 answers · asked by Toni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As wise men always said , "only fools rush in. "
2007-03-15 11:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly???
Okay, my brother set me up on a blind date with my bf 6 yrs ago (we were both in relationships during the set up), after 3 dates we were both hooked (and broke up with the others). Within 2 months we were living together. I guess we just had a feeling that we could survive anything and that we were perfect for each other. The down side of that is that we really screwed up our money, neither of us were responsible enough to be living on our own which is why we are not married yet - too many debts to pay and we want a clean slate. So I guess what I'm saying is don't pick it apart - if it works then great, if it doesn't look at it like a learning experience and move on.
2007-03-15 18:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by JD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way way way too soon. Speaking for lots of experience on this, it will never work out. 2 months is not enough time to know a person. And, if the other person just got out of a very long relationship, it will take way more than 3 months to heal from that. Very bad idea!
2007-03-15 18:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Firegrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fast relationship is 2 out of ten will work. why, it takes a year to find if the person is right for you, some people have a hard time accepting thier partners faults not even a year. I think you are still in honeymoon stage so still strong feeling that you can't get away from each others arms, try about after 6 months let's see how you doing? goodluck!
2007-03-15 18:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each relationship is different.. dont pick it apart.. i've always believed if it feels right do it.. dont' judge by a time frame..
yes it can work out but just like any other relationship.. I moved in with my now boyfriend a little over a week of meeting him in person, about 3 weeks from when i first met him online.. I was just out of my marriage for a little over a month and he was just widowed about 2 mths..but things felt right and its been about 2 1/2 yrs and we're still together.. we've had our normal couple problems but its because I'm unsettled and unsure of myself not because of "us"..
2007-03-15 18:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mouseling 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyones different but to be honest 2months bit early.could be this person just wants somewhere to stay until they sort themselves out. you could get hurt. its up to you how you go but tread carefully, try to get her to be honest with you,if she truly likes you she'll understand. good luck
2007-03-15 18:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by kazzy3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think people should move in until they're married but I'm an old fart.
FP
2007-03-15 18:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, way too soon.
2007-03-15 18:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya that is way too early
2007-03-15 18:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by G-Uniter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES....IF YOU DO IT DO NOT GIVE UP YOUR PLACE CAUSE I'M PRETTY SURE YOU'LL NEED IT AGAIN REAL SOON
2007-03-15 18:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~*Kimberly~*~* 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋