feminists are always saying that, but why so? if it's because girls can't do anything about it, then that's false. girls do have limited control over the way they look. and lets assume that girls aren't attracted to good looks. they attracted to smart, funny, and popular guys. guys have little or no control over those things. some guys just don't have high iqs or didn't get a good education. and some guys, like me, just aren't funny. i have a sense of humor and try to be funny, but people never think of me as the funny guy. and if you think it's just not right to make girls change their appearances and worry about their looks so guys will like them, then is it really right to make boys try to be something they're not just so that girls will like them? so feminists, is it not shallow for guys to be attracted to pretty girls? or is it also shallow for girls to be attracted to smart, funny, and popular guys? or are you just a bunch of hypocrites?
2007-03-15 10:55:16 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess its ok as long as you arent upset at a woman being attracted to a guy for the size of his package.
2007-03-15 11:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah most people are hypocrites...lol. No it's not shallow to be attracted to someone by good looks...so... you see a girl and you suddenly say... OH MY GOD SHE HAS A BEAUTIFUL SOUL! LOOOl yeah right! you can't know that... so yes you need the looks to be attracted and then to STAY attracted the personality and "soul" are the most important stuff. But yes you can't tell someone is great without talking to them so yes to say you're shallow is pure ugly people cra*. Sorry if I insulted anyone but it's the way I think. But having good looks gets you "auditions" hehehhe so don't feel bad if you choose to talk to a pretty girl rather than an average one... if you see a group of girls never start with the ugly girl... you will lose huge amounts of respect from the beautiful ones...
2007-03-15 18:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a double standerd. Girls like guys that are good looking (and some girls only like a few guys cause they're only good looking, but some are just desperate and will go with any guy they find). I mean, I have a crush on a guy who's good looking (I mean really good looking, like model good looking), but he's also smart, funny, nice, and he is pretty popular...but, it's thought of for guys to be shallow when attracted to good looks cause guys aren't thought to have that many layers to them and aren't thought of to be as deep. But, it's true for girls too. A girl always wants a guy that's good looking, but you know, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2007-03-15 18:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's accually very natural for the Male brain to be attracted to looks...You really can't control being attracted because the male brain is stimulated mostly by vision...but looks aren't everything....Look at her heart as well
2007-03-15 18:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by Joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its shallow when that becomes the only thing that attracts you...(ie...you marry them for their looks)
2007-03-15 17:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by ya ok....sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not that way at all.I don't care about your looks or how you dress its how you act and your personality.
2007-03-15 17:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmk
if you would jus shut the fcuk up long enough so
people could live there lives then maybe you could get somewhere hun=D
2007-03-15 18:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not ppl who say that are shallow
2007-03-15 17:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by Omarion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋