I really like this girl... how do I know she likes me?

Question

Hi...
I really like this girl and my parents know her parents really well. I think that she likes me back, but the only problem is that i don't see her very often. I only see her when my parents invite her and her family round, because she lives quite far away from me. Mine and her family are, I think, going on like a trip to somewhere in Europe this summer, but how could I know that she likes me or not? And, is it right for me to tell her that I like her even though she might not like me?
Thanks...

Answer 1

Yes, it's okay to tell her you like her. Just tell her how you feel, but don't come on too strong. If she does likes you, she'll begin telling you how she feels because I'm sure she's been wanting to tell you too. Just be confident because girls don't like insecurity.

And make sure to tell her how you feel next time she visits, because if you don't, you'll regret it. Believe me, from past experience, I know.

Good luck and have fun in Europe. ;-)

Answer 2

If you don't see her that often, I wouldn't try and get something going with her. The reason is that long distance relationships are difficult to maintain, especially at you age.

However, I would defiantely tell her you like her. Even if she doesn't like you back in the same way, who cares at least you found out rather than spending years and years wondering if she liked you.

I've been in that boat. It really sucks to run into a girl I knew from school, and find out they would have gone out with me if I had asked them. I wouldn't want you to have to go through that. So just tell her how you feel.

Answer 3

Well Heres what I think..
If you like this girl tell her..she might like you too..You'll regret it later if you don't tell her because you'll always wonder "what if"..how far away does she live..and how old are you because sometimes long distance relationships work out..when you tell her that you like her tell her if she doesnt feel the same way they will still be friends and tell her that she doesnt have to feel awkward around you

Answer 4

Boy yuo must be really young! Of course there is a risk involved, but try to flirt with her, don't say I like you right out. If she flirts back, then go further. Try giving her an innocent massage or something like that.

Answer 5

I think you should get to know her more, and talk to her friends and ask them what she likes. If all else fails just tell her how you feel. I know if I didn't like a guy and he said he liked me, i would just trust him more for telling me, even though I don't like him.

Answer 6

Be honest! Don't be pushy about it though, that would likely turn her off.
I don't know one person that wouldn't like hearing that someone likes them, thats always very flattering. Chances are, that if you have an inkling that she is attracted to you, she probably is. Go for it, you only live once!

Answer 7

you will never know unless you talk to her. Just think is she does like you that means while both your parents are on vacation you guys can maybe start a relationship. dont let the distance interfere. Its worked in my relationships in the past. you have to put in some work but they work. and it worth evry mile.

Answer 8

I think u should just go for it. Tell her how u feel and see if she feels the same. If not then move on.

Answer 9

oh yes..u should tell her that u lik her..so she can tell u..how she feel about u..then it will be all good..u both she talk to each other..and see where u both go from there and so on!!

Answer 10

Take a risk and tell her you like her. You will regret it one day if you keep on leaving it and she ends up with someone else.