ok so I'm overweight, and I've been trying and trying to lose weight!! but it wasn't happin so now I'm serious and NOW my mom starts telling me what my older bro says about me (he is really fit!) he says that im fat and eat everything in sight!! NOT TRUE!!! and she is agreeing w/ him!! and i usually say things like that are true(because they are)(I DO NOT EAT EVERYTHING!!) but thats NOT true!!! and shes on an angry war rampage!! I'm sick and tired of it!!! what do i say to tell her to calm down bc she is just stressed without her screaming at me? were getting a house built and THE DANG WORKERS AREN'T WORKING!!! she is takin it all out on me and my brothers and sisters!!!
2007-03-15 09:54:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if she is upset with the worker then she needs to yell at them as for losing weight the best advise i have is eat small portions and get some exercise ride a bike or just take a walk but don't try to not eat at all your body thinks it is starving when you do that and everything you do eat no matter how small will turn to fat i know this due to years of dieting as a child and teen i ate to comfort myself so when i was mad or stressed i grabbed the chips or the soda and went at it lol good luck and don't give up every-ones metabolism is different so you and your brother even though your have the same parents are very different people
2007-03-15 10:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by patbgone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to talk to your Mom you all need to get together and choose a time when she isn't angry. I suggest you (all) tell her you appreciate how stressful things are at the moment but the things she's saying make you feel bad. The worse you feel about yourself, the more likely you'll comfort eat. Maybe that'll buy you some time. Good luck.
2007-03-15 17:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel. im trying to lose weight to and all my mom do is nag at me! dont eat this dont eat that, but she puts all these sweets in the house and expect me 2 not have a taste LOL . its ok, just try ur best , eat smart. and when ur mom nag at u, just walk it out ( not the dance like really go take a walk ) and u will be fine , i wish u all the luck in the world, hope it works
2007-03-15 19:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by loveable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her. My mother did similar things like "you should lose some weight it will help you find a nice girl etc." It was bull. Love yourself for yourself and not what you look like or a scale says. Now in keeping with that, manage your weight so that you remain healthy especially when you're young cause its a lot harder when you get older.
2007-03-15 16:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All pressure aside.... Obessity is a real danger. Did you watch TLC yesterday (channel 32) There was a man who weighed 1072lbs. Even worse, depression can be a problem for someone in your shoes. So, try to just be happy with whom you are.
2007-03-15 17:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by geno1581 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About the weight issue, sit your mom down and tell her that you are tring to lose weight, it isnt easy and its not going to happen over night, you need her help not her critisim. As far as her taking her anger out on you, go hang out with your friends, lock yourself in your room doing home work. Try to stay away from her so she cant yell at you. Or just tell her, I know you are mad at them, but dont take it out on me.
2007-03-15 17:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the task at hand. And try to understand your mother's point of view. You being overweight could cause a lot of problems for you.
2007-03-15 17:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how hard it is to lose weight. Consult your doctor on what the best way for you to lose. Tell your mother her nagging is not going to do any good, then ignore her ranting and raving. Good luck...
2007-03-15 17:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom, let her know how you are feeling! You'll work it out- dont let anyone pressure you into losing weight- the more pressure the more you'll gain: let them know that they need to take a chill pill- talk to them and good luck
2007-03-15 18:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by *~*Glamorous1750~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all doesn't your mother know she is only making it harder for you to lose weight by nagging you about it and putting even more stress on you? have you ever had a thyroid profile it sounds like you could have underactive thyroids. Your thyroids can play havoc on your weight. Trust me I know
2007-03-15 17:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by jonsgirl1972 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋