do u hate it when tha guy or gurl u goin out with on a date wants 2 always spend so much money on 3 or 4 hour date. im not sayin she or he a gold digga but then she or him gets mad and says u dont luv them if u dont get them wat they want
2007-03-15 09:52:41 · 11 answers · asked by Mark W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Making another person spend a lot of money on a date is not correct. Im a girl, and i dont need my boy friend to spend money when he's out with me. Sometimes i even eat at home before i go out with im just so that i dont get hungry when im with him. Im also the kind of person who doesnt feel comfortable asking anybody for anything. I've always had money to buy what i want (im not rich, though, just independent). Dont get me wrong, If he plans a dinner, then i accept, but if he invites me to the park, I dont expect him to feed me after the walk at the park. Not that i dont deserve for him to spend all his money on me (cause i know im so well worth it), but im not an inconsiderate person. WHen going out with someone, it is not important how much they spend on you, but how they treat you. The person is what makes the moment special, not the money.
Now, if a guy invites a girl to the park and they spend ALL day there, she should tell him that she's hungry... A girl's gotta eat! If she doesnt feel comfortable saying "Im hungry", then just say "Could you please take me home?...Im hungry."
But if a guy doesnt feed the girl, knowing they've been together ALL day, HE should be responsible and should at least buy her some lunch...You know?
2007-03-15 10:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 22:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by myland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means their simply fake. If you cant go out and have a good time with them without spending a heap of money then u dont need to be with them anyway. They probabaly ARE gold digging. Im not saying be cheap and dont buy he/she nothing at all..just dont go blowing your whole check. ESPECIALLY if you're not married
2007-03-15 09:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a gold digger.
on the first couple of dates it is a turn on for guys to flash money in front of you just to let you know its there.
but that doesnt mean nesscarily go buy her the new jays or something.
gold diggers are annoying, so ive heard.
IM SURE THEY ARE.
but dont get it twisted; their is a such thing as gold digging men too. ladies can have $$$$$$$.
2007-03-15 09:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by MiiKEY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't go out with anyone who confuses money with love. If I have to buy someone something to make them happy, then they don't want me, they just want what I can get for them, and that's not worth my time.
2007-03-15 09:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a Gold Digger, man.
If your company isn't enough, what's the point???!!!
If you go beyond your means you are asking for big trouble.
Hope this helps.
2007-03-15 09:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are like that than they ARE gold diggers! just being with the one u care about should be enuf, not how much friggin money u spend on them!
2007-03-15 09:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say If you really loved me you wouldn't treat me like a national bank.
2007-03-15 09:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by sharen d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell em that u mean lots more than money and I shouldnt have to go broke to tell you I love you...
2007-03-15 09:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
win the lottery ... then you will know the real answer...
2007-03-15 09:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by metalli_catz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋