its this guy. im almost positive he likes me. i kind of like him but he wont ask me out. i really dont want him to because i might say no, but im wondering why he hasnt tried.
this is what he does:
- he took my phone once and called it so he will have my number
- he always jokes about me being is girlfriend and when i say no im not he argues yes i am
- or he will be like we were going out because i broke up with her
- we have keyboarding so once i helped him and i said this is my first time helping you and he said no you helped me last night too (he always makes comments like that)
- he always stares at me
- if he walks by me he has to touch my hair or arm or something
BUT I DONT LIKE THAT
- he does flirt with other girls
- he looks at other girls chest and butt
- we RARELY see each other in the hallways but if we do he ignores me
i know i cant be mad at him for flirting because he is not my man, but still =)
2007-03-15 09:48:32 · 10 answers · asked by MiiKEY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK Jackie, he is your fes. You want him for yourself like a back up plan just in case you dont have a date to the big dance. And he hasn't tried because ever time he jokes about dating you he is testing the water and every time you shoot him down. Plus guys can sense negative vibes and you already said you didn't want him to ask you out so why would he.
2007-03-15 09:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter if he is your man or not, MEN that are not Gay are Always going to Look at other girls Chests and Butts. As for Flirting its human nature to flirt im guessing you do it all the time or at least this guy thinks you do so he may be doing it back to force you into acting on your hidden feelings.
2007-03-15 16:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your problem is here....you don't want him to ask you out, but you wonder why he hasn't.....he makes ugly, immature and inappropriate comments to and about you and touches you without permission....he acts like he doesn't know you when you pass him in the hallways (of high school, I presume; given the storyline).....
How about you stop talking to or dealing with this and ANY guy for a while? I'm not saying "ignore him until he proves he likes you", I'm saying go off guys altogether for a while until you can be more clear about what you want.
AND TELL HIM TO KEEP HIS D*MN HANDS TO HIMSELF.
2007-03-15 17:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by duncanhines1920 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this guy is a big flirt and you'll only suffer with him starring and flirting with all the girls and you will always feel hurt...besides i didn't like the comment he made about you helping him last night...it is cheap and disrespectful...a real man doesn't talk to a woman like that...stay alway from him.
2007-03-15 17:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Melina A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, he has it bad for you.
Maybe you need to just sit him down and talk to him about it and then just walk away and ignore him. Start fighting back when he touches you. Or play the game with him and pay him all of the attention and see if he likes being the center of attention. Some do not like it when the tables are turned.
2007-03-15 16:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know that when that happens to me, i always want to march up to the guy and ask him what's his problem, buster- but thats just me. I never have the courage to actually walk up to him and give him a piece of my mind, but you might!:o)
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2007-03-15 16:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by faye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he totally likes you, every guy who ever liked me acted that way, and they all asked me out
just wait, and if you like him, flirt back
but dont flirt dirty
be the innocent little... nice person
and be yourself
because if you ever had a guy friend tell you he liked you
it's because you were yourself with him
2007-03-15 16:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound slike you only want what you cant have. he hasnt asked you out so you kind of want him to, but you most likely really dont want to go out with him. you need to stop worrying about pointless things like this
2007-03-15 16:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by 12345 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not in to you, he is just a flirt.
2007-03-15 16:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're confused with what you want from him...
2007-03-15 16:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by ICU 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋