Umm yea so I dont have very many friends thats are girls and i want to change that
the only thing is im homeschooled so i dont have a school where a bunch of girls go
and when my friends that do go to school when we hang out its just us no girls ever come so whats some ways i can meet some girls?
-Ive asked this before and you people have said just walk upto girls in the mall and talk but im kinda shy
plus i know theyll think thats weird
2007-03-15 09:42:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also im not unsocial I am on 2 diff boards at the library i play 5 sports at a local high school I have 2 diff youth groups its just i never get to talk to girls or be friends or anything
2007-03-15 09:53:21 · update #1
Pick up a sport that is co-ed like tennis, volleyball or even dodgeball......something. There has to be some community leagues around.
If sports are not your thing, then hang out where you can meet some girls. Like the mall, but since you're shy, look for volunteer activities. Just activities to meet people in general.
2007-03-15 09:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enzo32ferrari's dating tips...for guys:
Topic: Bit shy, & no one around.
Being shy is natural. Don't worry about it cause you aren't the only one; you aren't alone. But you have to get over the shyness if you are to meet any girls. The best way to do this is:
Best ways to get a girl:
1. Go to the school your friends go to for a day or so, and meet some girls there.
2. Go to the mall and overcome the shyness; however you have to be aware if the girl you are trying to get already has a guy
you have to ask whoever you are being schooled by, to have a day off to go to school; tell them that you could be alone in life if I don't start now.
hope everything works out
2007-03-15 16:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by enzo32ferrari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this from a girl. There are lots of ways to meet girls other than school. Here are two ways: On the internet like IMVU.com, but it isn't that safe, and at parties and festivals. And girls don't think it's actually weird for guys to walk up to them and talk unless they:
Look weird/ugly
Have something in their teeth
or
Their breath smells.
If you look cool they will probably want to talk to you. There is no reason to be shy.
P.S. Will you be my penpal?
2007-03-15 17:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ella F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your guy friends to arrange a get together for a group of you (guys and girls) to hang out a restaurant, one of your houses or at a bowling alley. Girls love get togethers like this especially if you guys arrange something special and invite them as a group. That way none of the girls will feel that they need to have a date for the night and they'll be comfortable. You could do something really cool like having the guys cook a dinner for the girls and invite them to one of your houses. Then you can all eat, listen to music and just chill together. Who knows? You may meet someone really special this way.
2007-03-15 16:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by sandra b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This pretty good advise! Most people will tell you if you want to meet girls you have to go up to them and talk to them....
What is your reaction if a girl comes up to you and talks to you? I'll bet it's the same for the girl! Most girls are flattered just by you coming over and saying hi to them...so just do it!
Places to meet girls:
Barnes & Noble or other book stores
Super Markets
Mall
Amusment Parks
I can go on and on because girls are everywhere...
Just be yourself walk up to a girl you see that you like and chat her up! Not all girls are going to respond positively but not all will say NO to you either...the key is to just do it...and not get down on yourself because a couple girls say no to you...you will eventually meet a girl that wants you just as much as you want her...
Cheers!
2007-03-15 16:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by Dave B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but i think it's stupid that you're home schooled. You need to go to a regular school so that you can meet people. The whole point of school is to socialize. Tell your parents that you want to attend a normal school. Or maybe you can join some coed activities like sports.
2007-03-15 16:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a youth group, go to the libraries, museums, places where kids hang out. Take up a sport, lots of girls love athletes. You have to build up your confidence and get out there.
2007-03-15 16:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a go getta. You see a girl you'd like to meet say something to make her laugh If she laughs then more than likely she his a sense of humor. Then easily work you way into asking her for a number or a date.
2007-03-15 16:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start doing more things with your guy-friends that is outside of your own home. Have a friend organized something like going to the mall, to a movie, etc...If your guy friends have any lady-friends, then you could meet them.
Good luck! --Michael
2007-03-15 16:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask ur friends to start bringing girls when u guys hang out... That is a start.
2007-03-15 16:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋