hi i have a boyfriend at skool and no im not fergie but i have a boyfriend at skool and his mom came in and stuff then after he left he was looking sad so my friend went up to him so then i went up to him and asked him wat was wrong he said that his mom hate him and his sister a drug dealer and his dad wanna kill him and i am crying right now cause i really love him. wat should i do???
2007-03-15 09:39:52 · 11 answers · asked by Fergie/Black eyed peas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is so sad! really it is.. you should pray for him and talk to him about it. I think he will feel better if he knows there is someone there for him.. I know I would.
[Ps. dont dump him... he must really like you if he told you this]
--shadeh♥
2007-03-15 09:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by me love kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on guys, little respect here, do you not remember what it was like to be young and in love. So this may not be "the one" for her, but who knows, stranger things have been known to happen.
Even if he's not the one, he's the one right now and he's hurting and needs someone to be there for him. Thats my advice to you hun, be there for him when he needs you, convince him (if possible) to confide in someone of authority who you both trust (teacher, parent, whoever) remember - we can all choose our friends, but our families will always be there and if he's are mistreating him, even just with threats, then he needs good friends and good support. Be there for him and help him find the help he needs. It'll be hard for both of you and you may fall out from time to time over it, but in the long run he'll thank you for it
2007-03-15 09:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by Colin Willson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be supportive, listen to him when he talks about these things, and help him to find support from other adults if that's what he needs. Also remember to take care of yourself, that means don't let his problems interfere with your relationships with other friends, school, decisions you make, etc.
most of all, let him know you care . good luck!
2007-03-15 09:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by bdazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you should not be telling us you should be telling social services or a paren because that isnt safe he could be getting beat and if you really loved him you would put him out of hi missery
2007-03-15 09:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your parents if yall could move him in.I think hes in an unhealthy relationship,you should try to get him out of it as quick as possible.Good luck.I prayed for the situation.Turn to God for help.He'll help you out.
2007-03-15 09:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant really do anything but to be there for him... that's the most support he can get at a time like this
2007-03-15 09:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by musiclover1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to turn him against his family, however show him that he has your support and that his family are probably turning on him to release their anger.
2007-03-15 09:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by ceri t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
support him in all ways
2007-03-15 10:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess how u feel
2007-03-15 09:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up...please.....you have NO idea what love is...that aint a saying, when your 10, you really dont....fergie....
2007-03-15 09:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by YouKnowImRight 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋