ok well i have a bf.. hes 24 has a kid and he doesnt work and doesnt go to school .. he says hes been looking for a job but he still hasnt gotten 1 and its been 4 months.. now at work the owners son just asked me out on a date .. hes super cute .. very sweet he works here and goes to school .. now my bf i know he loves me .. but we never go out everytime i see him its either at his house or mines.. and everytimes its at his house .all we do is have sex and thats why recently i havent been going over.. im getting bored pretty much .. what do i do !??!?!?!?!?
2007-03-15 09:33:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you read your own words than you will see that your answer is right in front of you. Why do you need someone else to give you the same answer to which you know. I will give you some wise saying from Benjamin Franklin:
Since thou are not sure of a minute, throw not away an hour.
He that waits for fortune is never sure of a dinner.
He that lies down with dogs, shall rise up with fleas.
Look before, or you'll find yourself behind.
An empty bag cannot stand upright.
No gains without pains.
An egg today is better than a Hen tomorrow and you have an egg right now so go out with the Hen (owners son). Remember the sole purpose of dating, is to find the right partner that will be your perfect match and don't cut yourself short by settling for eggs (your boyfriend). Since you are not sure of a minute (current relationship) don't throw away an hour (End your current relationship since you are bored and unhappy).
Self respect is the root to Diligence and Diligence is the mother of good luck.
Just remember that "you get what you deserve" and if your current boyfriend is what you deserve than you have no self respect and I do not believe that anyone deserves a life without happiness (a perfect partner) or "TRUE LOVE".
Sincerely,
SuperDave
2007-03-15 10:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by SuperDave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but that doesnt sound like a positive relationship. Actually it doesnt sound like a meaning full realationship at all. More of a physical one. try talking and going for walks. Spend some 1 on 1 time NOT between the sheets. If real feelings develop then get on his back to get his life together with a job and his kid. Good luck xoxo
2007-03-15 09:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Evilish13 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
End it with the bf and start seeing the new guy. But end it first with the bf, let him know that its just not working out. You want someone who is stable in life, not someone you will have to support cause they can't get a job.
2007-03-15 09:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by Proud Mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should break up with your bf and go out with your owner's son... No offense but your bf has no life and if you want to spend the rest of your life like you are right now... you have problems. So go out with the cute guy =]
2007-03-15 09:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by musiclover1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel, and as far as your date wait because it's never good to open one door before closing the other, and this guy should be understanding if he really like you. Then after you talk to your bf you'll make a better decision. communication is the key to successful relationships.
2007-03-15 09:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Camille 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump the old boyfriend, then go out with this other guy. Your current boyfriend sounds like a loser. I mean really, 4 months and no job? who is supporting this guy you, or his mommy and daddy? He may not be able to find his dream job in 4 months, but he has got to be able to find something. (he wont even get a job to support his child!!) get rid of him!
2007-03-15 09:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your "boyfriend" the booty call is over. Then date a real man.
2007-03-15 09:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you already know the answer and are looking for justification...do what your heart says.
2007-03-15 09:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by astralpen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let h im know you nned more if it doesn't change then let him ago
2007-03-15 09:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by Hello Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋