ok heres the story
i broke up with this guy John bout 4 months ago cuz we had nothing to talk bout. but all throughout those 4 months he kept saying that he did still love me but he wanted to stay as friends. so i was ok with that but i never moved on until bout a month ago. you see i somewat met a guy named Micheal and i grew to really like him even though we hardly talked at all. Then yesterday me and john got in a big fight cuz i wrote him a note saying that i was moving on and that he should feel how i felt just waiting for him to ask me out again. I want to ask out Micheal but not until after the spring break so i can fully think my desicsion through!! But i want Johns support on this cuz he grew to be a really close freind to me but i haven't even told him bout Micheal and john thinks i'm jealous of him and his new gf!!
PLZ HELP!!!!!
Kelse
2007-03-15 09:32:16 · 17 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Huh?
2007-03-15 09:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by naseldrip 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you had really moved on, you have been able to make that decision by yourself, without having to discuss it with John. You didn't need to write John a note saying that you had moved on, your actions should have been clear enough to John that you had. If you are interested in Micheal, ask him out, and see where things go. Be mature about things with both guys, but just know that you don't need John's approval in order to ask Micheal out. Separate yourself from John more, because his girlfriend may become jealous, and that's not something you want for anyone, big drama, not good.
2007-03-15 09:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is what u need to do befor u worry...Tell this John guy that u lik a new guy...&& if he doesnt understand or take it well then he is not a true friend && there is no reason to stick around this guy for to long bc sometime or another he will leave u for his other friend caz he will get sick of waiting...maybe if not he will be a good friend && he will wait for u && then u will kno that he is a good friend && u may have a chance with him again laterz
ok well I hope I helped a lil
Maddie
2007-03-15 09:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Madison G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd put some distance between you'all.John wants you to be jealous,thats why he can't let go.You can't afford to be friends with someone that insecure.Micheal?Yea,waiting a while till the John thing wears down isn't a bad idea.Don't tell John about Micheal,its none of his buisiness!
2007-03-15 09:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by gotabedifferent 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is kind of concieted it seems like! i understand what you mean about ur ex thinking ur still in love with him and is jealous! hell see how happy you will be if u ask Michael out..(cause I really think you should) and you`ll forget all about him! but he should support you and be there as a friends because of the relationship you once had..I feel the same way about my ex..everything will work put ok dont worry..John just feels a little jealous him self...hope i could help...
2007-03-15 09:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get John to get over you, you need to tell him for real that it truely is time. Tell him You found something better. If he dosen't understand that then just stop explaning John your cituation
2007-03-15 09:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok look, don't let him bother u. Tell him ur not jealous. And for Michael.... Ask him out when u r ready. Don't rush anything. SO good luck.
2007-03-15 09:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously you care a lot about him and his gf because you came on here asking this question...Maybe you are a little jealous...but to show him you arent...just don't care...don't talk to him ...don't show any feelings toward him and his gf...because that is what you would do if you truly did not care.
2007-03-15 09:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by *Mariah* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just get Michael and introduce him to your friend John. He`ll be very jealous.
2007-03-15 10:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want him to believe that you have moved on,you need to quit asking for his opinion.Who, how,or why you date is no longer any of his concern.The more you include him in your daily decisions,personal,and otherwise,the more he will feel that you want him in your life.
2007-03-15 09:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by critter mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yall aren't even real friends its just a bunch of crap. Plus you want to hook up with other guy's on spring break before you make your descision you don't fool me hehe.
2007-03-15 09:38:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋