why! why? why!?

Question

okayy,
i was, and still having a hard time. i'm not feeling the same way for my boyfriend. i've know him for about 8 months and we've been dating for 2 months. well, lately he hasn't been walking me to any of my classes anymore, we barely talk, and today was my birthday and i didn't even get a happy birthday. it hurts soo bad. i'm not good with letting my feelings out, and showing that i'm hurt. it's just hard for me to tell that i'm sad because i don't like people feeling bad or pitty-ing me. i want him to know that his not talking to me and not going anywhere, and especially his not saying simply "happy birthday" hurt so bad that i cried. what do i do? i want to break it off, but at the same time i don't. i don't know how i'd do it either. i'd be so nervous if i was to do it that i'd probably puke. i'm not good with stress, it makes me very sick, and this is veryyy stressful on my birthday of all days, and i have no idea what to do. please help. No Stupid answers, please.

Answer 1

You need to communicate with him. Period. Or if you can't, there's REALLY no reason to keep the relationship going.

This sounds like a good time for the old, old trick (Abraham Lincoln used it) of writing a nasty letter, then not sending it. Because when you talk to him, the focus shouldn't be on how he is bad, but rather on what your feelings and needs are, which he may or may not wish to meet.