OKAY I KNOW AGE OLD QUESTION. CAN IT BE ANSWERED? THIS IS MAINLY FOR THE GUYS BUT WOMEN CAN CHIME IN AS WELL. I AM 29 YRS OLD PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE (NOT CONCEITED) AND I HAVE A HOT BODY I AM WELL EDUCATED I HAVE MY OWN MONEY I COOK AND WELL I MUST ADMIT I HAVE NO PROBLEMS SATISFYING MY BOYFIEND. AS FAR AS INTIMACY IS CONCERNED, WE COULD MAKE OUR OWN MOVIE. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 18 PLUS MONTHS WE GET ALONG FOR THE MOST PART AND SELDOM DISAGREE. I WASH AND CLEAN AND BASICALLY TREAT HIM LIKE A KING. DID I SPOIL HIM OR IS HE JUST GREEDY FOR MORE OR NEW WOMEN. THANK YOU.
NICOLE.
2007-03-15 09:18:16 · 4 answers · asked by awynter77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I get asked by women a lot about why men cheat. Here goes....men have to make a conscious effort to not cheat. Men and women are not only physically different, but we also have a different internal makeup (chromosomes, brain activity, etc.). I have talked to many guy friends of mine and we ALL think this way. A man can truly love a woman and want to have sex with another. The act of sex for us CAN be only a physical connection with no emotions. We don't seek out wanting to hurt our girlfriends/spouses, but the desire to explore can be come great. This is where making a decision, as I mentioned before, comes into play. You weigh the risks involved. I admit that I cheated on girlfriends all the time. I'm married now and I have to decide if sex with another is worth losing my wife and kid....it's not.
Women will say that they have a good man who doesn't think about cheating. I have news for you....we ALL think about it, the question is "do we act upon it"?
Do you really want to test your man ladies? Hire the hottest woman you can find to hit on him while he's out with the guys. Have her tell him that all she wants is a casual "f" with no strings attached and see what he does. You may be disappointed in his choice.
2007-03-19 04:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing intimacy isn't sex. Sorry we in this society get that confused. You can have sex, intimatly, but that doesn't mean the sex is the intimacy. The fact is you can have hot kiky sex with a person and not feel a thing, then have someone just lightly brush you on the shoulder and that stink in your mind for days. Its the strength of love it isn't what you do its how you do it. Ether way most people cheat on other people because they forget this fact and are failing at making the situation intense enough to satisfy themselves. It doesn't matter what you do you can't stop a person from cheating on you, its all in their head. Thats why you never let a cheater comeback, bad, bad, bad. It shows you right away how much they care because if they were really feeling the "intimacy" they wouldn't need the other sex. It has nothing do with your skills, appeance, lifestyle, or basic lovin style. People are left to make there own opioions and no matter what you do its not going to change it. Lets just say no ones going to pick a quick screw over true love making. But lets face it we can pretend to be making love and it just be a screw the real evidence is in how they treat you outside of it. And cheating is big indicator that you've just been screwed.
2007-03-15 17:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it can be answered; here is the (unpopular) true fact: No matter what you do or don't do, or how pretty you are, it is their nature to want something new. It is IN NO WAY a reflection on you. All men cheat (99%). We are all in the same boat. I do not consider it a reason to end a relationship. My man "cheated" and I "forgave" him. If everyone ended the relat, the divorce rate would be nearly 100%. Just accept it; its HUMAN NATURE.
2007-03-15 17:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys just like stuff that is new and diffrent. That is why they cheat.
2007-03-15 17:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋