Seems that these days most men are either "God Fearing" and prudes, or they are just party animals with as many women or desires for women as they have idiodic ideas or barbaric attitudes. So tell me, do Real, intelligent, considerate, as well as sexy men exist? And if so................where can you find one?
2007-03-15 09:16:51 · 16 answers · asked by honeygirlc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is just as difficult for a guy to meet a girl who can be a lady out side the bedroom and filthy other wise. Fortunatly I have met my sexual, spiritual , emotional, intellectual ideal and I think someone else already gave you the best advice. You get back what you put out. So be confident, but kind and when you meet the right guy you will grow together in all the ways that make a relationship fun. I always said I thought monogomy is sexy.
2007-03-15 10:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girl i have the same problem i am from Savannah GA. it is nothing harder to do than find a man that is smart and cute but still a little ghetto. morals and respect is very important to me i feel that if you don't have them leave now! if you are looking for a good man that is still spiritual go to a church that is not on the best side of town and make sure you look good. do NOT try and find a man and say i can change him cause it never works. i wish you the best luck on your man hunt!
2007-03-15 16:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by TAVI H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people will say this is "pathetic", but i met my man on the internet. and quite frankly i dont care what people say because we've been together for 2 years now and we're living together, and it's better then any relationship ive had, where i met the guys in real life. it's easier to find a guy with ALL the qualities you're looking for online, and who cares, they're real people just like you and me. he's smart, funny, caring, romantic, makes a good living and he's also SEXY as hell! so, it can happen, and they do still exsist. good luck!
2007-03-15 17:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I know what you mean; such men do seem to be few and far between. However, you attract what you emanate. If you are a good person, yet passionate, you will attract that same type of person into your life. Ask the Universe to provide such a man. Worked for me ;)
2007-03-15 16:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In bed with their wives! I personally love the Churchies, but I know what you are saying. They are out there, but not in bars. Try book stores--if you like that type. Get involved in community activity (volunteering, hiking club, recreational sport) there are some disciplined hotties there that know when to keep their pants zipped and their eyes forward, but love to have a good time all the same...
Good luck.
2007-03-15 16:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by kerber22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The pill and the sex revolution made women easy - only a fool man is going to restrict himself to one chick these days
2007-03-15 16:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a nearly extinct group of people. Just know people that know people that know people and try to find someone. Try places where you think intelligent people would go. It is the female american dream.. keep hope alive. Don't settle.
2007-03-15 16:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sagira Tadashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont find them at bars or college parties ... try asking your girlfriends about guys they know and like as friends and try to get hooked up on a date or something.
2007-03-15 16:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by bitchlips411 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in texas. I'm as real as they come and really honest.
2007-03-15 16:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not on here.
2007-03-15 17:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mazer Thumpkin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋