i know he still loves me and i have no idea why he is doing this to me..help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 08:42:21 · 34 answers · asked by miizbabycheekz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well maybe he's going through a hard time and is unsure of himself. My friend is getting over a bad break up to. I'll I could tell her is that maybe it's good to have a break and if he does love you he will come back. True test of love. Until then take a deep breath, go out with some friends, have fun and please don't turn to drinking. everything will work out for the best.
2007-03-15 08:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jaroo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He does not love you or he would not be with some one else. Sit down and write the good things and the bad things that come from being with him. Do not lie to yourself ! I bet you'll have more bad than good, and that will give you and idea of what you do not need in your life. Have yourself a good cry keep trying to move forward. It's not going to be easy, it never is. People go through this every day. I'm sorry your heart is broke but your going to be ok in a few months. Find you someone that is worthy of your love and make sure your over this pom-pass a@@ first.
2007-03-15 09:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by rainingonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, if he broke up with you to be with someone else, there are two possible reasons I can think of. 1) He really doesn't like you anymore and he wants to move on or 2) He's scared of comitment or of the attention and such he's not used to getting from girls. If the second is the case, then it's probably because of this: He only dated those other girls because he wanted to get some, you know? And that means he broke up with you just to get away from the attention. And he'll come back. But if he really doesn't love you, then you really just need to move on..I know that hurts, but you need to accept it. Good luck!
2007-03-15 08:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look take it from me, i was a real stupid guy b4 , a PLAYER that is and well when i would be with a girl, it didnt matter how long , if she was really into me and stuff , i would take advantage of it and go mess around with other girls bc i knew if i came back to her she would take me back no matter what .
thats how the mind of a player works, right now hes probably b.sing the other girl too! maybe talking about how he hates you and then when you talk to him he talks trash about the other girl to you ..... its a very stupid and crewl thing to do but it happens....... best advice i can give you is ; meet another dude that is hot and really good to you , then when your ex calls you make sure your fiddeling around with the other dude so that when u answer the phone your ex hears how happy the other guy makes you , if you have a my space take FRIENDLY pics with him and post them .... dont take kissing ones bc then he'll accuse you of being a slut or something... look the thing is you want to make him hurt , make him feel like he made you feel, once he notices that your not paying him any attention thats when it will hit him and he'll want you back a million times more trust me .......i lived it hahahaha and i hated it
2007-03-15 08:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by hotguybmx760 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know he loves you?? Did you asked him to broke up with you and look for someone else? How can you say he loves you when the decision to stop the relationship was his, not yours. And let me tell you, men usually don't end up relationships, they do things to let us end the relationship as to not feel guilty or avoid being judged by others. You said so yourself, he broke up with you so he could be with someone else. What else you want? Confront the reality and go on with your life. Come to your senses and keep your integrity, your pride. There's nothing you can do. Unless you like wiping the floor with your pride and self-esteem.
2007-03-15 08:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He thinks he wants to be with this other girl right now so you can't really do anything. The best thing you can do for yourself is move on - if he decides he has made a mistake then guess who will be hurting?
2007-03-15 08:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by Dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you saw how he really is before you would of maybe gotten married then $$ or worse kids would be involved.
He will get bored with his new fling and maybe try to come back to you (say NO) or maybe he will find someone else all together. Either way be glad your rid of him.
2007-03-15 08:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by 2shay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not doing it to you. It is a choice he made for himself. cry, listen to sad love songs, eat a boat load of ice cream. Shake it off and move on. Sulking and obbsessing will not help you at all.
2007-03-15 08:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by NIKK F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can hurt to feel rejected, but what is there to decide? I mean really? There is nothing for you to figure out. Why would you be trying to make things better? He'll be asking you to take him back in about .....oh....two months. If you even think about it, what does that say about you?
2007-03-15 08:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel about it. If that doesn't work, ask him by emailing you or talking on msn and ask him if he still loves you and ask why he broke up with you. i'm pretty sure he will tell you the truth and make sure he's making eye contact with you.
2007-03-15 08:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋