my best friend wants me to hang out with her and less wilth my boyfriend over spring break..... and it is really hard to choose i have been spending alot of time with my boyfriend.....
2007-03-15 08:32:32 · 7 answers · asked by dkcaywood2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should b with ur best friend .
after all her friend ship is more honest
2007-03-15 08:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just lost my best friend due to the fact that she chooses her boyfriend over me ALLLLL of the time. she even blew me off after i bought her a 60-dollar concert ticket. i cant even stand her and especially him anymore because all she does is spend time with him. chances are, your friend is telling you that as a nice way to try to get you to understand that she may feel left out. i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and we have a good balance of friends and each other. if one of my girl-friends asks me to hang out, i say yes. i dont cancel important plans with my boyfriend, but i understand that friends are more important. i`m sure your boyfriend will understand if you let him know you need to spend some time with your best friend. plus, she only asked for you to hang out with him LESS, she didnt say not at all.
2007-03-17 19:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by shannon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women do that? As soon as they get a boyfriend they either cut their friendship with their female friends or drastically reduce the amount of time they spend with them, but when the guy starts to act up, the first person they run to is the friend that they pushed aside to the corner.
Your friendships and your relationships are both important and they both should be nurtured, you better organise time to be with your female friends as well if you want to be well rounded and sane.
Look at how guys do it, they hang out with their girlfriend and when its time to hang out with the boys, they hang with each other even if he has to fight you for it and he will fight you for it because as important as you are to him, his friendships are equally important and he will spend quality time with both.
2007-03-15 16:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by Pink_Zirconia!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should hang out with your friend for a couple of days and some days with your boyfriend. by the way your friend might want to hang out with you because you probably don't spend enough time with her.
2007-03-15 15:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by d c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend sounds a little jealous and it's really common. She's probably used to having all of ur attention and she doesn't want to share u. Explain to her that u still want to be her friend but u wanna spend time with ur bf too.
2007-03-15 15:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, if your friend doesn't respect your rights enough to let you hang out with who ever you want then you better talk about that first, but if you want your friend and boy, then try taking a doubble date; so she can hang with her boy and you can hang with your's. but if she doesn't want your boy around, then talk to her, you don't need to scream but just make sure that you tell her that your boy is special to you.
2007-03-15 15:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lulu Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u hav been spendin alot of time wit ur bf then i suggest u hang out wit ur best friend. no question abt it. choose ur best friend.
2007-03-15 15:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by sexy dread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋