If you and your ex broke up... And his mother wanted you to come visit her... would you go? keep in mind that you and his mother have a good relationship but you have never met her in person before but have spoken to her a few times over the Phone and she knows that you still have feelings for her son...
Would you go? And, would it recindle the relationship? are hurt it please answer ....
Thanx
2007-03-15 08:26:44 · 15 answers · asked by nikkiblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did have a wonderful relationship with my ex-mother-in-law and it didn't change after our divorce. She was a wonderful lady and I cared about her alot. We spent alot of time together which meant we had plenty of other things in common and to talk about other than my ruined marriage with her son. Sadly she passed away a few years back and I miss her. It did not recindle my relationship with him because that's not what I wanted and my friendship with his mom was totally seperate. Unfortunately, he passed away last year - we remained close friends and it was a very sad time -especially for the daughter (my only child) we had together. Life is funny sometimes. So, if you would like to maintain a relationship with this lady do so, but only if it's coming from your heart - do not use it in an effort to get your ex back - that's a really wrong thing to do to her.
2007-03-15 08:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go and visit I would just make sure that he wasn't around when you did, that way after you have come and gone the mom can mention it to the son and maybe he might call just to say what's up and ask you out again.
2007-03-15 08:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have to lose? Go see her. If you want this person then meet his mom. She might be your secret agent on the inside. She was a girl once. She knows the hurt that can you can feel. But she has to be careful, he might resent mamas interference.
2007-03-15 08:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go visit her just for the sake of visiting her. I wouldn't try to rekindle the relationship.
2007-03-15 08:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by april.may 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See you can visit cause no harm as she will not beg to you to consider the relationship again. But its your decision you can take it or leave it i mean to say softly reject it.
2007-03-15 08:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by Bacti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she asked you, then by all means go, but ask her if you are allowed to bring a buddy, for, and i hate to say it, she may be setting you up....i hope i am wrong on this....don't worry about what your ex will think, because his mother asked you not him...but if ya broke up, and you see him there, don't be suprised if he has another gf there...
2007-03-15 08:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by phishsports 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience I am asking you not to do it. It will not rekindle the relationship just hurt it
2007-03-15 08:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her again to meet somewhere that her son won't be around. You can be her friend but not front of her son.
2007-03-15 08:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY A WAY! She can do more harm then good. Did you see the movie monster-in-law? Only worse.
2007-03-15 08:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys get pissed off when they think you're trying to take sides along with their Mothers. Stay away, unless you want to really PISS him off!!
2007-03-15 08:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by jacquie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋