I'm on a really long university course with my ex gf. She is in all my classes. I broke up with her for religious reasons and then regret it (because I looked at it with a clear mind) and she had moved on and wasnt attracted to me anymore by then so wanted us to stay just friends. She said she doesn't think we could ever be together because she wanted a guy who knew what he wanted. Is it possible that if we stay friends we could possibly have a relationship some time in the next few years? Or does it mean I can never ever be with her ever again?
2007-03-15 08:26:13 · 10 answers · asked by jackbla22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try give it more time, being her friend for a while and who knows she will fall in love with you again. Try your best to take her out as often as you can. Good luck.
2007-03-15 08:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you left her for your beliefs so now she belives thathe wasnt good enough thats a lot to ask a person to forget about sounds like to me you're done with man and to be honest it was a really stupid thing to do unless she worshiped satan or anything crazy if your relegion is such a big deal to you i'd find dates at church not college as most in college probably wont share your stringent views of faith so your two options are relax a little on what you believe and allow other to belive what they want and try to come to a basic understanding of one and another or look for other places to find a girl this ones done with you for sure she probaly resents you for what you did and even more why it makes you come a cross as some sort of freak as there are many multi relgeion famliys out there and some how i figure she wasnt very relegious at at all to begin with which for you is better than some one who is at least if she wasnt relegious to begin with if you got married and what not things like that tend to change but between you and her this is not going to happen you need to move on and learn from your mistakes
2007-03-15 15:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well anything is possible, but remember everything happens for a reason. People break up and get back together all the time. Only time will tell. Dont rush into it though. If it is meant to happen it will happen.
2007-03-15 15:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Ruth K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you closed the door for her and she's not willing to open it from her side. I wouldn't say never, but you're probably going to have a bit of a battle getting her back.
You could try going to her and telling her you made a mistake, and that you've changed and you would do anything to prove it, but personally, I'd say you should move on. She has.
2007-03-15 15:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible. Keep your distance for now and in the future, hopefully the right situation will present itself when you can explain to her how you've grown.
Good Luck.
2007-03-15 15:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by mykidsrsaints 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You queston is like asking someone to read the future. All things are possible if you have the right motivation for the right reasons.
2007-03-15 15:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u just need to talk to her...explain your side of the story even if you've explained it before. See if she changes her mind and you might can start again. Good Luck!
2007-03-15 15:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by pinkbabiesr07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible.
2007-03-15 15:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody can tell you what the future will bring
2007-03-15 15:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go
2007-03-15 15:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Eric C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋