For what reason would you sleep with another man in the bed that you and your fiance share? Serious question, I know a guy that had this happen to him. He walked in on the two of them. Is he just not satisfying her sexually?
2007-03-15 08:24:06 · 20 answers · asked by Nasty Boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the women and the other man must share a connection in the bed that the other two dont..Or...it goes deaper than that and shes falling for him...or she was just really horny at the time and didnt really think about...happens all the time...they cheat because..i couldnt tell you that...I wish I could...but even people who cheat dont know why they did it..**most**
2007-03-15 08:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only difference in between ladies and women are the age, but a person that would do this has no morals. She doesn't love no one not even herself. To me this is a low life whether a woman or man. Her parents may have been cheaters and she sees nothing wrong with her sexual behavior. This guy needs to get rid of this person and go to the doctor and get test for all the STD's out there and then again in six moths there is telling how long she's been sleeping around. I feel for this guy, I was in his shoes but I was married not once but three and I caught all of them red handed and we had a I thought good sex life ( every night ) and it wasn't boring. It's both sex's and they that cheat lose in the long run. They lose honest loving mates that other wise would have been there for life.
2007-03-15 15:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by rainingonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat in 60% of relationships and women 40%. In fact, I assume that, contrary to social opinion, monogamy isn't normal for all people. Unfortunately, society isn't accomodating to those who want to be both honest and are not naturally monogamous. Open relationships are seriously frowned upon.
Most guys or girls don't cheat to get sex. It happens, but not to most people, IMO. Most fall into a relationship unexpectedly and only have two options they see open to them. Leave the new relationship, which is brutally difficult, or cheat. Society has shown them only those two choices.
I am polyamorous. I am very open about my feelings and non-monogamous nature. I always make certain everyone involved is aware and OK before I enter into a relationship (their significant other, if they have one, and my wife). Though sex is a component of these romantic relationships, it's no different than anyone with a girlfriend or wife. They are long term and very loving relationships.
I've found it odd that society will accept cheating more readily than the honesty of polyamory or swinging.
It's believed that women do cheat more than 40% of relationships, but just won't admit it on the surveys.
2007-03-15 15:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheat on my fiance...and if it got to a point where I was so unhappy, I'd end the relationship before I bed anyone else. Much like I wouldn't want my fiance to cheat on me....it would break my heart if he broke up with me...but it's less painful than catching him in my bed with another woman!
2007-03-15 15:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some women are just like that.
i finally separated from my husband, during the separation he hit me and I slept with someone else. He had hurt me so bad. He would run around on me, bring other women in front of me, started doing crank again after we had lost everything because of it, and then he hit me more than once.
I know I never ran around on him while we were together but it still doesnt make it right.
people do things to get even or to get over the hurt. I dont know why people do the things they do.
2007-03-15 15:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by Courtney A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i thank about ladies that cheat is, that some women cheat for a REASON not all. They maybe need someone to love them. someone that well care about. woman should not do that but they do. and if you man do not want your woman to chest give them some LOVE care about them when they need it. but woman should not cheat it is not nice. I well not feel good if my man cheated on me.
2007-03-15 16:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by little ma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no respect for him, she may say she has love but thats not love when you can do that to someone. She stays with him for other reasons, habit, codependancy or money- to list a few reasons. If she can sleep with someone else she is definitly not in love and he should not marry her.
2007-03-15 15:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by InProgress:-) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people just need a little variety. We are not wired to be in monogomous relationships. Men and women alike feel the need to have multiple partners. I would not blame it on unfulfilled sex, but on the want of different sex.
2007-03-15 15:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by novae2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are many reasons that a girl cheats:
.she is just lonely and needs a new man to kinda jazz things up
.or you just arent satisfying her and she needs someone/something new
.or she likes this guy
.or she is just a whore and one man is not enough
2007-03-15 15:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She prolly wanted to get caught so that HE would break up with her and she wouldn't have to do it herself. Or it's just the whole thrill of maybe getting caught. People are freaks.
2007-03-15 15:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋