even if that person is with someone else? and you decided
that if it,s not with him,then you gonna take a break from men.
2007-03-15 07:58:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, I am not fighting to get anyone back! If I have to try that hard, than it's obviously not that worth it to be with me ( in the other person's eyes)! If someone wants to be with you, you will know that. If you have to take a break from men, or feel that that's what you want to do, it's your life. Sometimes, doing so removes you from the cloudy haze that you may be behind from being in love, falling in love, or wanting someone just that bad. Just be real with yourself. You'll know when you have found your prince charming, and someone that's truly interested in you. There are so many people out there and you have so much of your life to live. You can't let one bump in the road trip you up. Deal with your feelings, cry about it, and then, move on. Time doesn't ever stop ticking and you'll get through whatever you are feeling right now. Be STRONG! There are so many people in this world....you don't just have to focus on one.
2007-03-15 08:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by mixed_beauties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My own personal rule is that they have one chance and they blew it so there is no going back. I also nearly took a break from guys but I also have girl friends on the side because that is the kind of relationship I am in. However, if I made out or went farther then that with a guy but no relationship, that is a different story.
2007-03-15 15:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by superwoman1184511 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that. He is an ex for a reason. Fighting for him back isn't going to change the reason the relationship ended. If he is with someone, let it be. Hang out with friends, do your own thing. The right one will come along.
2007-03-15 15:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by misstigeress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you would get a x back is he was not with anyone also don't concern yourself with all that emotional stress its time to move on with your life . if you set a bird free and if it does not return it wasn't meant to be ,i hat to see anyone suffer for a lost cause. take a break,I'm sure that a higher power has someone out there for you and in do time with a prayer from your heart and soul, i guaranty you will be bless with the right person keep the faith ,just you asking for a solution is a great step for closure i hope things work for the best for you .
2007-03-15 15:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO... Why fight? If you believe there may be a slight chance to make things work between both of you then you can talk to him about that, about the chances of working things out and giving each other a try but if he passes and shows feeling for that other person then why fight? Obviously he doesn't want you!... One day you will meet that one person that will go out of his way to spend time with you.. That will be the person to be with!
2007-03-15 15:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Ex's are Ex's for a reason, so, no I would not fight to get them back. I don't think I would jump into anything either if I were still hung up on my ex. It's best to be alone for awhile and enjoy life/recover.
2007-03-15 15:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by jessiekarma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel like this i would fight to get him back only if its worth it for me in my cause my baby daddy provides for me and all of my kids even the ones that r not his and i know how he is and i feel like this i rather be with someone i have a bond with r spent some years with for a period then start over with someone that i do know well and go through the same thing with them.i feel like this can't no one tell u not to be with a person because if it was them they might do the same thing to try to fight for him too it's just that u don't know what they are going through.try listening to some Betty wright she can get ur mind right. i hope this helps you...
2007-03-15 16:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by mssteele2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break. Even if it's only a short one...believe me it will give you perspective. Go out with the girls. Go dance and drink and have lunch and shop. Whatever you like. Have fun. You will be sooooo happy you did.
2007-03-15 15:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i would do that cause if he aint with you then he aint feelin you. which means there is no point in dwelling on it. he would be one of those get back up dust yourself off and move on. you love life is nothin but chances. Chances that you have to take and if they dont work out no matter how much it hurts you just try again. youll find someone when its your time to find someone
2007-03-15 15:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by laloca_2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I wouldn't fight for anyone. It's all about free will. It sounds like you plan to punish yourself though. I'll bet your ex hasn't thought twice about you while you're ready to take on the world for him.
2007-03-15 15:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋