What's the best way to get over a boy i like? i was thinking about asking him to hurt me really badly so i can get over him, but is that the only way? thank you very much for your answer
2007-03-15 07:55:32 · 7 answers · asked by Em 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Avoid all contact and get busy doing stuff you enjoy. About 6 weeks of completely not having any contact or involvement your feelings will begin to change.
2007-03-15 08:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by ~Raspberry Tea~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't ask him to hurt you. Get involved in the life around you. Go out an join a club or group, volunteer at the animal shelter or hospital, or library. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-15 15:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good tub of chocolate ice cream, a couple containers of frosting, a good long soak in a hot tub of water, and your well on your way to recovery. Find a close friend to talk to about it. Go to your school therapist, and try to think about everything except him. When your ready, begin to flirt with other guys...go on a few dates, but stay single for a while. it'll help.
2007-03-15 15:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hurts u badly, u get to love him more. so remove him from ur head and all the links to him, till u find a man dat loves u better..don't find this man to make him jealous but for ur real love. if he calls make ur conversation short. never give him chance to talk for a long with u or what u are doing.
2007-03-15 15:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by diji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay Chicky- just adopt the idea that you have to move on. I have been in the same situation. I know its hard but it will get better with time. Just keep going and keep achieving your own dream . Give it time! Take care xxx
2007-03-15 15:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by Bex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avod him, think of the bad stuff about him......
like.....did he hurt someone ever?
is he mean in any way?
2007-03-16 17:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, don't do that, just give it time and don't talk to him much, space will make it go away.
2007-03-15 14:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋