Here's the scenario: Mate knows boy, boy likes her and she likes boy, so it was in the beginning. He drove in from the country, met up with her, they would go to the diner. Boy would flirt with girl and girl with boy. One day girl decided to tell boy how she feels. Girl also got boy a new job working at a tree farm at the same time because he loves the outdoors. Boy and girl never kissed or touched, but was getting close. Boy now treats girl mean and all. Boy very rude to girl despite all what girl has done for him. Do you think his conscience will get the better of him? Girl is extremely hurt. Girl still feels compelled to do things for boy because she still likes him. What should she do?
2007-03-15 07:54:16 · 12 answers · asked by Leona 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd like to use a bunch of swears but I don't want to get reported. Tell her to tell him to GO SCREW. What an sh*tty little ingrate. Tell her that whenever she feels compelled to do things for him, direct it toward someone or something that DESERVES it and will be appreciative.
2007-03-15 07:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one of the problem with girls these days, as soon as we think that a boy likes us, we will give him the world. I guess this in our up bringing trying to please everybody. You say they never kissed, but were getting close. Of course he was getting close, he was getting everything he wanted without asking for it. Let this be a lesson. Tell "her" to let him go. Why keep hanging on to someone who obviously had no intentions of being more than a friend. And next time when she starts liking somebody, wait a while before giving him the world. Let him take care of her before she does the same thing again.
Believe me if she's so nice, there's plenty of nice guys in this world. Let this one go and pass to the next one.
Good luck
2007-03-15 08:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by johanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as though the boy knows that she likes him and is taking advantage of it. Tell her to stop doing things for the mean boy and find someone else to like.
2007-03-15 07:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by lonelykuroinu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my ... girl has got problems going after someone who does not want anything to do with her. Boy does not appreciate girl...PERIOD!!!
Girl really needs to leave this guy alone and move on with her life so she does not get hurt any more.
2007-03-15 07:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by ~Raspberry Tea~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl should find a boy who likes and appreciates her for exactly who and what she is. Bottom line girl is way too good for boy.
2007-03-15 07:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kristina L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warning! warning! Biolifeform "girl" is in self-destruct mode! Jetison relationship, NOW!
2007-03-15 07:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by DarkLord_Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him completely. Watch what happens!
2007-03-15 08:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by daffy duck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just got tried of waiting for u to to get together and just give up. i think you should tell him how you feel
2007-03-15 07:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by cfhjufdrbko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go.. Find someone worth your time and effort.
2007-03-15 07:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go...the more you do at this point, the further he will go,.
2007-03-15 07:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋