We shared a bed a year ago and he held me till i slept, that was it,i was bitter about my x(his mutual freind)cheating on me.This guy was so sweet,for the past year I have not been able to forget about him and that night,So i finally called him and told him, he said it was mutual but he started seeing someone a month ago,and he wished he had known how i felt.I ran into him a month after that and we were like magnets the whole night, we started kissing and it was unbelievable and we could not stop.Then i realized he had a girlfriend,so i told him we had to stop,he again said he wished he knew i had liked him and that i am everthing he looks for in a woman.I told him we could be friends,because im not that girl(the 'other girl') he understood. It has been a few days since and I assume I need to let it go and move on? Because he has-right?
2007-03-15 07:37:30 · 5 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be there and he will probably lose the other chick.
2007-03-15 07:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as ridiculous as my thoughts may sound, if this is meant to be...it will happen. A similar thing happened with my husband and I (except no other girl part) although I was with someone else at the time.
2 years later we met and 2 years after that we were married. We now have 5 terrific children, a great life and we are still very much in love. Honestly, we have had one argument our entire marriage and there were some pretty tough times at one point that should have broke us up but instead made us even more connected to each other...
Moving on doesn't mean losing completely...you never know what tomorrow will bring until you get there...leave that door open but don't let life revolve around it...it will happen if meant to and you'll be ready for it if you are suppose to be.
Good luck
2007-03-15 07:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's married, he can chose who he wants to date. Perhaps he should break the news to his other woman that you've already stolen his heart.
2007-03-15 07:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is meant to be it will happen for you two just back off for now and let things happen the way God planned it.
2007-03-15 07:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by raven1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes let go... if he is the one for you... he will come back SINGLE and you can try it. Poor his GF.. that's messed up.
2007-03-15 07:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋